oh...ure still adjusting to the world of singlehood. Im in this world for nearly 4 years edi. i know what ure going through. It hurts when you really need someone n that someone's not there.

physically here but heart is not.. so its sad...

im from penang, moved to kl for work, then moved to melaka - and stranded

well, even wif the relationship going on, it was still hard n hurts whn u really need some1 n he is not there...
LDR sucked...

4 years... woah thats long.. must be workaholic

u mean ure physical part is in Mlk but ur heart is back in penang...? Its ok ba...Malacca is really quiet. Life there is slow. Unless you have friends, then its good. =)

erm, the person is physically here but his heart dont know where already....

lol...

yea.. Malacca is quiet, i like it here... but no friends =(

y r u in melaka stranded?

LDR does suck.....but its the best test yet for every people who are in a relationship. Take it as a whole new level to loyalty, trust, sincerity, endurance and communication. I was in one a few times. Though yea, its from the net, but eventually to real life, then to LDR. It only becomes really sucky when you're the only fool who's loyal enough. Fool, but a good fool. =) But it helps you to understand yourself better. For me, Ive passed the test thrice, and I know how far I am loyal to someone. =) I still keep her pen that she engraved my name on it.

Not workaholic lor. When you see my appearence then you'll know why.

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Added on December 14, 2010, 3:32 amoh mai...sound like...ermmm....heart has numbed up...

This post has been edited by [F]atalit[Y]: Dec 14 2010, 03:32 AM

i moved here for him... 100% of my things from KL all here... rship has been bad... *read the above.. so i feel stranded, no friends already coz lost touch with them for few years... stay in the room all the time... and face the laptop 24/7 for work..

oh mai...u sacrifice too much...sweet....but sadly, people just dont appreciate things until it is lost.

I can understand how u feel dear.... even though u go out and have friends, there are those times huh...

I hate those "times"

But u know, even when i go out with friends, hang out, go clubbing i still feel lonely..

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Added on December 14, 2010, 3:36 ami doubt he appreciates rather takes advantage of my love, but what to do... its a decision i made for the both of us.. im just trying to make things work for all the better..

but yeah, even though he may be next to me, i miss him *if u know what i mean

This post has been edited by Chipsy: Dec 14 2010, 03:36 AM

melaka club where wo...pure's the only decent enough place. haha. aih....we all know how that feels. But, as time pass by and you go through the second time, as strong as you become also, when the other side just plays you out, u tend to lose trust in such thing. =X Im numb by it edi.

well...the test of loyalty, i suppose i'd pass wif flying colours.
the approval part from parents seems to fail most of the time which bugs me and makes me fear most whn thinking of getting into another relationship...

i guess its just a great test n experience...

oh my..
could the rship be safed or refreshed?
y dont u start to contact ur old frens back. if there are gud of a fren, they'll just let the few years of non-communication aside and stay in touch again...

generally speaking previously when i was in Penang/KL...

here i dont club, i left clubbing... i guess i just got bored of it..


haha, funny thing i have been played out many times, but i have not feel numb yet, i wish i can... be the strong hearted person.. like rock hearted

but too bad, i cant.. i just keep falling over and over again.. i just keep trusting them, and i guess i cant help putting them before me...

yes, the few months post break up the worst...even wif frens, it was lonely as ever.
no day goes by w/o having a single tot of him...hated it...but numb wif the feeling...
i changed my way of thinking, and enjoy myself wif my frens and not think of anything other thn enjoying the moment wif frens...

aww...have u talked to him bout how u feel?

yea...i get ur meaning. =) well...r'ship always comes down to the 4 elements, trust, understanding, sincerity and communication. Break one, you break all. In this case, he's not sincere in the relationship, thus the taking advantage of it comes in.

u have to see from both sides, ur parents just probably dont want u to be hurt from a LDR. Its not easy, but if you both can pull it through, ure better than most of the couples around. My case was the other half's family told me that im too nice, but they did tell me that if she's sick and so on...its not easy for me as i am not there. =(

well, your right... there are, but put it this way, i am not allowed to be friends with them.. sucks right.. but i dont mind.. its just disappointing that things has took a turn, a drastic one in fact hence after my decision to come here.. it was decided between the both that it was for the better that we move here together but he was the one that turned his back now..

This post has been edited by Chipsy: Dec 14 2010, 03:47 AM

wah...bored of it? U must be clubbing pretty hard last time lor. Haha. Sorry la my hometown not happening. =P...at least ure better than me u know. Im sort of stone cold inside. I was also like u, keep kena played out for a reason that my mum always tell me "ure too soft...."

well,
the approval wasnt based on the fast the rship was LDR, if it were..it wouldnt have hurt tat much...
rather it was due to difference of religious. well, it sucks whn u tot frm the beginning and was somehow told my the partner tat the parents would not have concerned bout religious, n in the end, it turns out they actually do concern bout the religious difference.

nvm lor....if i go bck hometown i call u. hahahaha. =) sometimes me and my bunch of friends hang out back 1 group in melaka. Don't mind us though, u do realize that malaccans talk like some sakai that knows no shame rite? If ure ok with big loud crazy groups la. But since u said tht u were not allowed to make friends, it sounded like ur bf was controlling u...=X