From what I read in this thread, my conclusion is the question itself from TS is circular error. Lesson of life, chinese have this, we call it Social University "社会大å¦", Social has many relm, we start our kids from young, she goes to std one or even nursery, thats a small social world for her, she not only learn to pass exams, but an informal exam is how she survive in that small social world, how she make friends and survive manipulation, lies, backstabbing, betrayer and so on.
When she is in secondary or university the story remains, she now faces her enemy who are more mature, and so is she. This skill acquired will help her survive in the real world, corporated world or those in the lime light, is nice to see on the outside but darn ugly in the inside.
ok apart from the social university, we talk about education, I'm from sekolah kebangsaan, the teachers there mostly sucks, but 1 or 2 will be outstanding thats if you're lucky. but somehow we do survive, most schools do produce Doctors, engineers, CEOs, on the other side most schools also produce gangster heads, criminals and so on.
What I'm trying to say is this, we live in malaysia, we need to adopt or blend into the enviroment, how we survive will depend on the social skill we have. I'm not anti improvement, just that this thread is about home school or public school, home school you lack the social university.
i think one who came from sekolah kebangsaan will never know what home schooling is about. i think u r wrong here. homeschooling has better opportunity for the child to get social life outside than a barricaded school compound couple with some strict disciplining teachers and A Grade Prefects. The school is to segregate the A grades from the F grades . the lack of social engineering in public school had also caused many boys and girls looking at sex education and relationship as a taboo in culture rather than embracing and respect each other gender . The lack of understanding of social and gender have caused more men to be flirtatious and lie on relationship to reach the objective. Divorce cases are on the climb and single couples don't believing marriage anymore.
Home school does not mean that one is center around home but parents duty to sent the child out for activities and they have more time to expose the child to different people. i don't see students from std 4 mingling with std 6 or going down to the level of std 1. do you see this often in your sekolah kebangsaan? most students will stick to the same people in class or share the same ideology.
finally, life lesson like betrayal or manipulation does not need to be educate in school. until today, there are still many who can't even sense what is coming and when will they be cheated unless you are Cal Lightman the Professor in Lie To Me who studied micro expression. I think your whole perspective in chinese philosophy need to be reverse. if your cup is full of liquid, i can't teach u more new thing. the school system is filling up the cup only , they don't empty the cup , the same thing u thought school is good for your child.