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This post has been edited by sya_dc: May 21 2016, 04:40 PM

yalor, marry first, then think about having babies.. eventhough you prefer to have adopted one first..
just a recommendation..

I think you should get married first. Married couples have higher chances of successful adoption.

u can go or call Jabatan Kebajikan Malaysia nearby u
ask for the form application.
they need some of your documents
if u have found a baby, then u there's a procedure after that.
if u want to adopt from orphanage, u should go to that orphanage first and discuss with the principle and JKM
celebrity can do, so u do.
i would love to have one adopt kid soon. been at orphanage once with my mum, the kids(below 2 years) cried and hold my shirt not allow me to leave them.

Hi sya,

AFAIK, babies are harder to adopt if they're under JKM care since the priority is given to childless, matured, married couple.

Try Orphancare

If all else fail, try and be a volunteer first. And try to adopt after you guys got married.

Also, during festive seasons, some of the orphans who has no family (uncles, aunts, grandparents etc) can also be semi-adopted, meaning, you can take them in, celebrate with them, and after a while send them back to the orphanage..

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This post has been edited by sya_dc: May 21 2016, 04:40 PM

try helping this couple trouble...

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1669514

Adoption are meant for capable people pass 30 and single. That is my recommendation. No offence child

wtf? "Capable people" pass 30? Single?

adoption is HARAM...

sape cakap?

kesian jahil.

TS, adoption to me is even more serious than conceiving and bearing a child.

At 22, do you still plan to have your own kids? What about your partner's reaction? Does he/she plan to have kids with you?

If there is no 100% agreement there then you should think harder.

ada wang ada baby

DO orphanages and shelter homes allow adoption. JKM, do they themselves control the process or have actual database of unwanted/parentless children?

If you have a lot of love to give, then you can adopt a child.

adopt baby om puteh

The adoptive parent must be at least 25 years of age in order to be considered for adoption. Just to let you know there are many childless married couples on the wait list of JKM, so they usually push single adoptive parents down the list and priority given to married couples, even then, still got some (many!) couples waiting for 7 years and still waiting for a baby. Harsh reality in Malaysia. Not so 'easy' to adopt. Not surprised of baby trafficking since couples do get desperate for their own little bundle of joy, by birth or adopted.

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This post has been edited by sya_dc: May 21 2016, 04:40 PM

Are you a Muslim? If you are, then it is actually 'easier' to adopt as there are more Muslim orphans in rumah anak yatim compared to non-Muslims. Indians a little bit easier than Chinese, and for me, a Chinese, I find it difficult. I am speaking from experience as a non-Muslim. Many painful moments and my own and in-laws' side relatives' careless comments do not help to ease the pain. Not trying to get personal in my earlier post, just trying to share what I have found out the last five years (and still waiting). Unless of course, you go for de facto adoption - you can google that up and yes, good luck in finding a willing birth parent to provide a child for the de facto adoption. I know some single ladies adopted their child successfully through that method in Peninsular Malaysia.

If you are really interested (and I don't wish to talk more just in case anyone misunderstand me further) - for further info: http://tinyurl.com/83yzod7