Jun 3 2012, 09:41 PM
QUOTE(sya_dc @ May 31 2012, 12:25 AM)
I just beg to difer. They are so many rumah anak yatim around, and they are growing in numbers.
Government do support the kids but they just slow in helping those (parents) in needs.
Honestly i still feel like adopting. my parents say is hard and no need when im fine to have my own kids.
But reality i feel like i want to adopt one. No doubt what my parents say, im actually ready to be a mum.
Are you a Muslim? If you are, then it is actually 'easier' to adopt as there are more Muslim orphans in rumah anak yatim compared to non-Muslims. Indians a little bit easier than Chinese, and for me, a Chinese, I find it difficult. I am speaking from experience as a non-Muslim. Many painful moments and my own and in-laws' side relatives' careless comments do not help to ease the pain. Not trying to get personal in my earlier post, just trying to share what I have found out the last five years (and still waiting). Unless of course, you go for de facto adoption - you can google that up and yes, good luck in finding a willing birth parent to provide a child for the de facto adoption. I know some single ladies adopted their child successfully through that method in Peninsular Malaysia.Government do support the kids but they just slow in helping those (parents) in needs.
Honestly i still feel like adopting. my parents say is hard and no need when im fine to have my own kids.
But reality i feel like i want to adopt one. No doubt what my parents say, im actually ready to be a mum.
If you are really interested (and I don't wish to talk more just in case anyone misunderstand me further) - for further info: http://tinyurl.com/83yzod7
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