ijnek, thanks ya... be the force be wif me (since i'm able to joke, i'm still sane rite?)

so here's few questions for the weekend:

mil just told me if i continue bf, my breast will shrink to flat chest... anyone? hit me wif all ur might coz i wanna laugh at this one...

phythia, since ur boy is elder than mine, do u give him solid food first then ebm or the other way round?

i dunno how to cook so how to cook porridge for his first solid food ya? n how to puree food?

my boy can have 2-3 times of hiccup a day... since it's still within 6 mths, do u exclusively bf or give him water to cure his hiccup?

another question for phythia (), when ur boy was teething, how u go thru it? did he bite? did u give him something?

n feel free to ask more questions coz i oso wanna know

guys, lemme take out some steam

to my horror, my in laws (yes fil n mil) just fed the baby durian~!! yes u heard me rite DURIAN... down goes my effort... mil added in jokingly said baby will like durian then ur milk next time... i dun find it funny tho... i really feel like i'm not the mum of the baby... everything is set by them n hb... y no one wanna listen to my opinion?? u want me to wake up early n i did... u want me to handwash baby clothes n lampin n i did... u said wanna put on lampin n i did... u want me to stop work n i did... wat else u guys want? seriously i now secretly wish i could move out asap... but it's not going to happen since i've hinted once... i really feel like breaking down~! serious~!    

Staying on your own is much better!  We stay on our own though...my parents live 2 floors below us..kekeek..but..they don't come up to interfere..unless..we invite them over for dinner.  Most of the time..it's me who goes to their house..and spent most of my time there as my mom takes care of my son when we are at work (good planning, right? Just drop son off before going to work and pick him up after).

You'll learn how to do house chores and stuff..for me, my mom is a housewife..so she did most of the housework..and we would help occasionally over the weekends and holidays; but she does most of it. 

Nowadays, I do things myself and i'll delegate to my hubby.  Of coz i can't expect him to do it at his own initiative but if I delegate, he'll do it.  On the other hand, he cooks so it's not so bad.

It will take awhile to adjust, but you'll make it.

Hahahhah! A guy friend told me this "You can never domesticate a man" LOL! so true! Domesticated men are rare species. 

My hb commented that I always give him instructions..kekee.how not to? Work won't be done and can't expect me to be the one doing everything as I work 5 and 1/2 days..my only rest day is Sunday..and that also is for housework.

qarezma, phythia, u guys... both of ur sons r abt the same age i think so u two can click well u're lucky ur hb willing to help... since i'm married to a traditional family house chores r for women

qarezma, i'm at skudai while ijnek is at permas

phythia, u r one lucky woman... ur mum's just downstairs...

ijnek, the closest one now which is my hb is not supporting n the next closest ones r either across the border or south china sea then the next is u guys i feel like i have no life >.<"

i stay in permas, permas ville apt.

i helped out a lot with the house chores, of course, i wasn't like this...even now i still grumble sometimes...
except the cookin, not tat i can't in fact i like cooking,most of the other stuffs i would hv a part in doing too

i guess if u r alone here, the internet really helps to bridge the distance between ppl.

nic:
thought of using video chat with ur parents etc?

urmm..could it be the stretch marks? I know i have some on my breast.

Nickit..where you from lar..till timing is different?

Kit, may I know how often ur baby pass motion? My baby poo once every 5-7days. I am really worried la as hubby said wanna bring her see pediatric surgeon.

So I did an experiment to see how will she poop if she is on formula. Tis is her milk schedule.
7am: ebm
10am: ebm
1pm: fm
4pm: fm
7pm: ebm
9pm: fm
3am fm

She is taking 4oz each feed except the 9pm one cuz I feed her earlier so that she can sleep.

The good news is,she poo alternate day after following this schedule.
The bad news? Hubby ask me to keep to this schedule and store my ebm.

Plz advise.

Sigh... It's not me who want to bring her to see the pediatric surgeon. It's my hubby cuz he listens to his sis and BiL(which are GPs) which says babies should poop everyday.

The 2 doctors are afraid that her intestines are block or something. I refuse to bring her to the pediatric surgeon cuz I don't want them to run all sorts of test on my baby thats why i give her more formula to make her poop.

We have 6 newborns this year in the family and only my baby is on BM. They said BM is "water". I even get comments that my baby is not having enough despite putting on weight every month. 

How la......??? 

Today I put baby on ebm again and stop formula. Hope she will be good and poo more often.

Syd G,

How often ur baby poop? 

Hubby is on BM till he is 3 years old and he is super huge. He is very supportive in breastfeeding but on another hand also worried about the baby's poop problem.  Funny thing is the GPs told me that Nowadays FM is comparable with BM. I told her FM is chemical and she said her 3 kids grow up with FM and have no problem.

-$/),$,@/@-$!;$$.........

Syd G..good luck!

I also wish I can be a WAHM..but here..no companies are doing it..though currently, my work is just mostly in front of the comp..which we actually can do at anywhere...unless got meetings or events..