well, do u have relatives or closed fren who live near by u ??

since you both opt to work then u must send the baby for someone to take care. that is the sacrifice. or 1 of u quit the job for babysit.

or find a relative or some one u trusted .. like middle aged one, whereas their own kids have grown up but still havent got their own grandchildren.
they have experience brought up their own child ...since they are ur kin, they wont be doing nonsense stuffs

at the casual days, u can visit ur baby after working hours before u go back home to sleep ...weekend can take back the baby.

haha..