no offense, actually i feel both of u haven't prepare be parents yet. both of you are working professional, 2 of u should plan before having a baby. however, all of these doesn't important anymore. from my own experience is that let the baby stay wit babysitter while u working. after u finish work, then come back and take the baby back home. IF you have any OT or others important job need to get it done by that night, then let the baby stay with the babysitter for a night. dun leave ur baby away from ur side too long, it will bring bad consequences in future.