Women need to be heard. When women talk to their bf or husband, they want the men to listen and understand how they feel. But most men don't understand this and instead men give advice. Women don't want advice, they just need to be heard and understand. From my personal experience, men rarely make eye contact when they talk with their gf/spouse. Eye contact is extremely important to women.

The next time your gf/wife want to have deep conversation with you....you can do them a great favour by just listen while making eye contact and .....shut up...
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