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 Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, Selected readings from the book.

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post Nov 27 2010, 11:37 AM

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Chapter 2: Mr. Fix-It and the Home-Improvement Committee

Introduction
The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that they dont listen. Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks to him, or he listens for awhile and then proudly puts on his Mr Fix-It cap and offers her a solution. Men dont understand that women dont want solutions, they want empathy.

On the other hand, the most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a man, she feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things. She thinks she's nurturing him, while he feels he's being controlled. Instead, he wants her acceptance.

Summary: Men offer solutions, while women seek to improve.
QUOTE(jhcj @ May 25 2005, 10:37 AM)
Chapter 2: Mr. Fix-It and the Home-Improvement Committee

Introduction
The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that they dont listen. Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks to him, or he listens for awhile and then proudly puts on his Mr Fix-It cap and offers her a solution.

Summary: Men offer solutions, while women seek to improve.
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talking about listening.. many women didn;t listen to man too
i;m man .. when i voice out my opinion...why many women didn't listen to me?? because to women thinking is "it your problem .. not my problem.."

so many women didn;t listen too... i think your statement is bias...

your statement made man to listen... when they listen,, man become slave.. women become master... this is bullshit.,.

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Men dont understand that women dont want solutions, they want empathy.

acceptance.


then women should learn to participate... not expect man to entertained them...social skill is the key here.. no skill then back off and do some reading

i never believe venus or mar whatever shit.. this book is bias... that why all men lost their right.. because of this book..this book simple sell to fool man and women to make money

This post has been edited by atombom123: Nov 28 2010, 07:27 PM
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post Nov 28 2010, 08:58 AM

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QUOTE(jhcj @ May 25 2005, 10:37 AM)
Chapter 2: Mr. Fix-It and the Home-Improvement Committee



On the other hand, the most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a man, she feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things. She thinks she's nurturing him,


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listen you women.. at age of 21 i left home and be independent and work in KL alone.. you know why? because i don't want my mum to control me like a child ..

now everyone respect me being independent and sense of leadership..\\\

if my f***ing companion gf act like my mum... then what the different?

" assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things. She thinks she's nurturing him"??
you're my mum?? GTFO

i need women who can participate interesting hobby..make life interesting.. not nurture me like baby sister.. get it.. this piss me off.. i can say that i going to write a few volume here in this post...
you don't change me... either you participate my social life or GTFO...you're not my mum.. you're just another person to me.. who the hell are you women tell me what to change? .. can you mind your own life?? ohh wait.. women can't mind their own life..because women cannot stand on their own feet... then go back kitchen and make sandwitch for me!!

Added on November 28, 2010, 9:17 am
QUOTE(jhcj @ May 25 2005, 10:37 AM)
Life on Mars
Men value power, competency, efficiency and achievement. Their sense of self is defined by their ability to achieve results, and they experience fulfilment primarily through success and accomplishment. And for him to feel good about himself, he must achieve these goals by himself. Someone else cant achieve them for him. Understanding this characteristic can help women to understand why men resist so much being corrected or being told what to do. To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesnt know what to do or that he cannot do it on his own.
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Men value power, competency, efficiency and achievement. Their sense of self is defined by their ability to achieve results, and they experience fulfilment primarily through success and accomplishment. And for him to feel good about himself, he must achieve these goals by himself


wrong.. man only value survival....where this result must be achieve or we will die of starvation...that why men must work to achieve the goal and target..here i say it loud " I WANT TO SURVIVE"

sadly power, competency, efficiency and achievement has become a criteria which what women looking for man..and they forget the what is important call friendship..

Men value power, competency, efficiency and achievement ....which is total unneccessary..it only neccessary when come to greed and power struggle which happen in our country as following:-


Men value power of corruption, competency of corruption, efficiency of corruption and achievement of corruption..
power, competency, efficiency and achievement of cronyism
you think that neccessary? have you spare some thought who people who just want to survive and be happy?be realitisc man

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Understanding this characteristic can help women to understand why men resist so much being corrected or being told what to do. To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesnt know what to do or that he cannot do it on his own.


wrong... why men resist so much being corrected or being told what to do is because the women act like my mum..i don't want another mum in my house again ever...i'm done...
if you women think you can be good adviser to man.. then give new idea where to go and where to enjoy and have fun.... not advice on how to housekeeping my privacy.. get it?

ace.princess get my message?

women buy into this "women from venus" book written by utusan melayu

has show that women always get cheated into buying something...especially when deal with MLM seller...

all man, we must wake up in the battle of against the women cronyism by PKP party

note :PKP- Parti ketuanan perempuan

This post has been edited by atombom123: Nov 28 2010, 07:31 PM
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