My hubby and I try to have a little romance once awhile..as my son is stuck to me..so..usually..romance is after he sleeps but most of the times..when we are enjoying the cuddling time..son wakes up..so..poor daddy have to go back to the tv or comp..coz son only wants mommy at night..

I guess..that's life when 2 becomes 3...such..i don't think i wanna add another 1 to become 4...i doubt i'll be able to cope!

This post has been edited by phythia79: Jan 7 2011, 05:00 PM

Hmm...don't say like that..sometimes..we mommies too can't help it...of coz we have to see to the kids' needs first...even have to neglect our own needs

hahaha..reminds me of my son...when daddy holds me..he will make noise and even push his daddy's hands away..LOL!

Yups..same here..

My hubby has a new nickname for my son.."Cuddle Inspector" coz my son wont let us to cuddle. LOL

yes..he does...but what to do...child's need will come first.

My son sticks to me when I'm around..which makes me tired..and dad frustrated as he wants to help me out but son wont let. However, when I'm not around..my son would be an angel and be with daddy..

Then why have children in the first place if you want to hand them over to someone else when the going gets tough or when romance is compromised? We can't just pass our child to our parents or in-laws..I mean they had spent their life taking care of us and still hv to take care of their grandchildren? My mom has laid her rules saying that she takes care of my son only in the mornings..I hv to take him back once I get home and never on weekends and nights. My hubby takes overi n the afternoon so that she can rest.

Maybe your wife feels like she shd take care as it's her responsibility. Some women I know has this supermom syndrome whereby they hv to do everything or else they feel like a failure.

I guess I'm pretty lucky that my hubby is quite understanding.