'Any negative things she hear from a friend, she will avoid. Like example, drinking coffee is not good for the child..she like coffee but during her pregnancy did not drink a SINGLE DROP. Compared to someone else who drank liquor and smoke during pregnancy and baby came out fine. Even during breastfeeding years, she did not drink any coffee.'

i wouldnt call this kiasu, even the gynae will advice u against caffeine, and alchohol & smoking is a BIG NO NO esp when pregnant.