Oct 12 2010, 09:43 AM
QUOTE(abubin @ Oct 7 2010, 02:53 PM)
Hah..I would like judge you....but I absolutely salute you for daring to beat the taboo. This is the kinda girl I am talking about. Not those stupid kiasu parents. Absolutely fabulous.
I am sure you will turn out to be a good parent. Who do things according to common sense and not hearsay. The child will have a role model who will grow up to know how to thing for himself/herself and not following the herd type.
Stupid kiasu parents might have their reasons. Abubin, you maybe judge people too harshly before even understanding their situation. What if the parents have traumatic miscarriage before? What if the parents have problematic pregnancy? What if the mother's body is not as strong as others? What if the mother develops diabetes due to pregnancy? Or any type of complicacy? Of course they will be phobia and try their ever BEST to protect the baby. I am sure you will turn out to be a good parent. Who do things according to common sense and not hearsay. The child will have a role model who will grow up to know how to thing for himself/herself and not following the herd type.
But yes, to an external who do not know the real reasons, it might deem to be overproctective.
Of course you cannot group all parents as healthy, caffeine tolerant, etc, right?
And another reason, Mothers will be blame (especially in Asian community) if babies do not turn out right.
This post has been edited by Escudo: Oct 12 2010, 09:46 AM
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