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 my girl so hard to focus on her study, any advise pls

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TSlittleangelbb
post Oct 6 2010, 11:03 AM, updated 16y ago

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My girl s going tobe 6yrs old by year end ..n in her last semester in kindergarten. Last year when starting to school she 's very happy n enthusiast to it. Every time when came back from school she would done her homework well, no need to yell at her. But now, when come back from school,she prefer to play with her younger sister rather than doing homework. Later when doing homework, also so hard to focus on it. So easily distracted. When come to preparation for dictation,especially Bahasa Melayu....so hard for her to remember though she already tried to write n spell it few times. English n chinese subject s better. I teach her myself at home. When i'm doing my housework, she will doing other thing / play too, left her homework behind. Need to mad or yell to her so she will back to her homework. Have tried to talk to her in better way, explain why study s very important. After explain she will behave well. But only for 1 day.

My question is :
* Any better method or idea how to teach her to remember wht have she learnt b4?
* wht should i do to help my girl getting back her enthusiasment for school n study without me yelling everyday..?

This post has been edited by littleangelbb: Oct 6 2010, 11:06 AM
TSlittleangelbb
post Oct 6 2010, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(Yvonne047 @ Oct 6 2010, 11:41 AM)
It is super easy.. smile.gif Use you heart to feel what she is lacking off.. Feel her.. Talk to her.. Communicating is a very important thing.. Try to put urself in her shoes.. Try to know what she wants.. Yelling at a 6 years old girl will not help.. Try to talk to her the importance of studying.. (:

I have a friend, her 5 years old son was super lazy and naughty.. He didnt wanna go to kindergarten.. Then the mom said: Okay, if u dont wanna go to kindergarten to study, then you gotta work like me. The son agreed. The mom said: Since You only studied until kindergarten, so the only job that u can do is to work in a toilet at a random shopping complex.. You must stay there and be the cashier of the toilet. Surprisingly the son agreed. The mom did bring him to the shopping complex, and she even talked to the kakak there. Then, the son cried and he said he wanna study hard so that he doesnt need to do this job. (:

I hope this help! biggrin.gif If your daughter have a bad eating habit, look for me too! I have a super good way to make her not to waste food and not to fussy about food.
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Thanks for sharing...

I've talked to her many times...when we talk to her...she agree n behave well on that day...but then the next day repeat again lor...already giving so many example for her to see...

At home, my girl just eat whatever i cook...not so fussy...but at school sometimes she will choose not to eat wht her teacher give her. She said the food not as tasty as the food at home.


Added on October 6, 2010, 4:05 pm
QUOTE(Syd G @ Oct 6 2010, 11:29 AM)
TS,

I remember protesting as a child because I didnt like a certain subject. Its a vicious cycle - I dont like the subject so I dont perform in it so I dont like the subject cause I'm not good at it (repeat).

It's already hard mastering 2 languages at the same time, so adding another one is quite a burden I must say. I'd suggest teaching her BM the non-textbook way - talk more with her in BM, go to supermarket / zoo and show her products / animals and if you have Malay neighbours, encourage her to talk to them.

In terms of homeworks, I'll sit down and do homeworks with her. If I dont have the time then I'll ask my brother / my mom / any other adults to do so. Let her ask as many questions as possible.
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maybe u r right...last time i have malay neighbour, my girl love to play with theier children...they always talk...though my girl can't talk much in malay...but she can understand wht they say.
now my neighbor move out.
i've said to her that at home she can talk with me in malay or English, but she refuse to talk like that. i think i should encourage her do so.

in her homeworks, ofcos i'll sit with her but not for long time...cos i also need to care for my younger daughter who s just 1 yrs old.

anyway...thanks vm for ur advice... smile.gif



This post has been edited by littleangelbb: Oct 6 2010, 04:09 PM
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post Oct 6 2010, 04:10 PM

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thanks to u all for this encouraging advice...i'll try to work out with more explaination & communication with her.

 

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