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 my girl so hard to focus on her study, any advise pls

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sleekx
post Oct 13 2010, 06:57 PM

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I am not a parent, but I think parents nowadays could let children learn while enjoying what they do. I still remember when my parents bought me Lasy
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I would like to claim that this was the best learning experience I had as a child. It didn't teach me math, but I learned the importance of understanding, learning, and I still love DIY to this very day.

You gave a good example already of learning while having fun: your girl learned another language when she played with other children. but when she is with you she doesn't want to speak it, probably because it is a bit awkward or harder when she can just speak chinese.

Also, do show your agitation when you are angry with her until she gets the point, but never scare her soul away. Once she learns how to control her fear against you she is learning to ignore. I am not against hitting children, but not to the point of scaring the child's body/mind. Touch to let her understand, not to punish. Never cease to communicate as one day she will get what you are trying to say.

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post Oct 14 2010, 04:48 PM

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ar..my baby is still young..worry later she has the same problem..some ppl said not to let them study too early as they will feel bored later?????
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post Oct 15 2010, 03:47 PM

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QUOTE(uberkidstore @ Oct 14 2010, 04:48 PM)
ar..my baby is still young..worry later she has the same problem..some ppl said not to let them study too early as they will feel bored later?????
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I dont think so. Boredom depends on the ability of the subject to attract people's attention. There is no one particular subject that will interest everybody since every individual had their own interest.
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post Oct 18 2010, 10:25 PM

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is your child having these symptoms?

*Be easily distracted, miss details, forget things, and frequently switch from one activity to another

*Have difficulty maintaining focus on one task

*Become bored with a task after only a few minutes, unless doing something enjoyable.

*Have difficulty focusing attention on organizing and completing a task or learning something new or trouble completing or turning in homework assignments, often losing things (e.g., pencils, toys, assignments) needed to complete tasks or activities

*Not seem to listen when spoken to

*Daydream, become easily confused, and move slowly

*Have difficulty processing information as quickly and accurately as others

*Struggle to follow instructions.

If so, she/he might be having ADHD (Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), only qualified doctors can diagnose.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention-def...ns_and_symptoms
wInnIe PoOh
post Oct 21 2010, 06:41 PM

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QUOTE(littleangelbb @ Oct 6 2010, 11:03 AM)
My girl s going tobe 6yrs old by year end ..n in her last semester in kindergarten. Last year when starting to school she 's very happy n enthusiast to it. Every time when came back from school she would done her homework well, no need to yell at her. But now, when come back from school,she prefer to play with her younger sister rather than doing homework. Later when doing homework, also so hard to focus on it. So easily distracted. When come to preparation for dictation,especially Bahasa Melayu....so hard for her to remember though she already tried to write n spell it few times. English n chinese subject s better. I teach her myself at home. When i'm doing my housework, she will doing other thing / play too, left her homework behind. Need to mad or yell to her so she will back to her homework. Have tried to talk to her in better way, explain why study s very important. After explain she will behave well. But only for 1 day.

My question is :
* Any better method or idea how to teach her to remember wht have she learnt b4?
* wht should i do to help my girl getting back her enthusiasment for school n study without me yelling everyday..?
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First, You'll need to stop yelling at her
Second, find out exactly what had happened when things started to change at her side. Is there any incident happen in school? Or is there anything happened at home? Sometimes might be the parent's quarrel, or might be something she over heard

6years old is just way too young my dear, she deserves to play and please let her to learn to play. Come on, what's wrong with just letting the homework to sleep off for a while? Study is very important, but haven't you know that the first 6 years in life is even more important for them to enjoy ? Young children are able to learn even faster than play rather than those stupid dictation or spelling crap shakehead.gif

Once you're able to identify the real problem happening, you shall come up with something call reward system. Oh yes parents, please don't always push your children so hard, remember that when you were these small, you weren't having any homework at all.
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post Nov 1 2010, 12:14 AM

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i think it's better if more ppl guard her than only 1...
like tuition teacher, discuss with school teacher about her attitude at school and etc.

u must put in more effort than u did...
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