Sep 30 2010, 04:03 AM
QUOTE(joyceanne @ Sep 30 2010, 02:16 AM)
Well. I will just make it short.
Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.
We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.
I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.
I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?
Joyceanne! Me and my bf been together for like 2 years.
He is very into Dota. When we were back in Malaysia, when his mom and dad are at home, he didnt play that much.
And even if he play, im beside him watching or sleeping.
sometimes, i slept on his gaming sofa n he will carry me to room once he done playing.
To see him, to spend time with him, I learnt to play.
sometimes when i died or feed the game, then he is very unhappy.
most of our arguments came from his games.
His temper is not that good, that's the problem.
We came Perth. and now, its getting worse.
He woke up around 4pm, then eat then go campus play dota til 430am.
Sometimes i follow him. but sometimes if there are classes next day 8am then I will stay at home.
But i feel so boring staying at home.
and I dont like waiting the door to be opened.
I cried almost everyday.
I talked to him.
I tried to make him happy.
Things are still the same.
I even told him "if you continue to behave like that, Im sorry. Im not the girl suitable for you."
He continues playing.
I couldnt stand it anymore.
what else can I do?
Playing DOTA is not bad as long as one knows how to balance his time between DOTA and you. I mean if a guy plays DOTA or whatever addicting game technology has to offer, make sure he will also find time for his partner more than playing DOTA. DOTA is just a GAME, and JOYCE are just a girl that need LOVE! Sometimes (or maybe to some, often) happens is that one plays DOTA and since its really addicting, he tend to forget the time and his attention is now merely focused on playing that calling or even texting his girlfriend is already forgotten. TIME is VERY important in a relationship, and if most of the guy's time is consumed in playing DOTA, then that would really create a problem. Who would not get jealous if that would be the case?! and the point is, learn how to value time, it makes the relationship grow and spending time with your partner lets your partner feel they are important more than anything else, more than playing DOTA.. Sometime you need to learn let someone go and let someone in your life that will appreciate you like a girl that need love.....
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