This thread is interesting. Previously, I was very skeptical on all this ghostly things. I've watched and listen to alot of ghost stories before and I've come to a conclusion that when a person life ends it just end, nothing else. Until few months ago when my beloved father passed away, I've change my mind and millions of questions on life and death suddently strucked me. I keep asking myself where is my father now eventhough I know he's gone forever, is he going to be alright to walk that path alone, is he around and can see us during the funeral services, will GOD bless and protect his soul. Being the curious me, I did some researched on the net and I've found the answers to my questions. Surprisingly through my findings, I did encounter some of the unexplainable things during my father's passing. I was told that the soul will come back in the form of insects. When my father still in hospital, my sister noticed a huge white coloured butterfly flying into our house as if it was visiting and looking around. This is unusual as she never sees a huge white coloured butterfly in our home before. Its butterfly and not moth and we suspect its our ancestor. During the wake, when my father's photo was positioned to place, it drizzled and back to sunny shortly after. On the sending off day, as a son I was holding the ancestor tablet and there was this white colored insect lands on my thigh. Immediately I knew it was my father and when I touch it, it doesnt fly away until we reach the burial ground only it flew away happily. I've never had a flying insect lands on me and wont fly away for that duration of time before. The Chinese said that human has 3 souls and 7 emotions which took 49 days to form during birth and it took 49 days to leave during death. Human has 3 souls, animals has 2 souls and insects has only 1 soul. Like what Heibaiwuchang explained, human has heaven soul, earth soul and man soul. During a person passing, his souls will blow out just like a gust of wind. Heaven soul goes directly to heaven, earth soul to hell and man soul will stay at the grave. Therefore, the deceased cannot come back in the form of animals because it needs 2 souls. It only can take the form of insects which required only 1 soul and that is his man soul. This theory seem quite true based on personal experience but still unexplainable.

地主公 tablet usually we replace with new one when one is moving into a new home. Prayers ceremony should be conducted at the old place to inform the 地主公 that your family appreciate and be thankful for his protection and the old 地主公 will hand over his job to the new 地主公 at your new home because every house has different 地主公. Only move Guan Yin and ancestor tablet with you. The Sky God tablet also replace with new. As what I was told.

It could be:

1. He had heart disease for a long time just that he doesnt know it. Heard of heart disease is a silent killer? He loves your grandmother very much too and could not cope with the loss. It is difficult and very painful when somebody close to us dies. The stress and grief that he had to deal with could have triggered the heart attacked.

2. Is your grandma buried? This one may sound hard to believe and since your grandma just passed away I'm not going to tell you out of respect. Go find out something regarding to Yin House Feng Shui. Yin house in feng shui means your grandma tomb.

There is a superstitious believe that when a funeral ceremony is held at home, all mirrors should be covered up with white paper. This is to prevent one from seeing the reflection of the coffin in the mirror. If anyone sees the reflection in the mirror, there will be a second funeral. This is very serious, dont play play.

Its a chinese funeral taboo, how true is it nobody know and dare to try.

If your toilet mirror can reflect the coffin then yes. Its like the famous feng shui theory of putting mirrors in the dining room so that it double the food on the table. Same theory, nobody wants a double funeral in the house right. Actually its not that appropriate to hold a funeral at home because living being is of yang energy while deceased is of yin energy. If one yang energy is weak, one can easily fall sick. Also, during the ceremony it can attracts lots of wandering souls around that area to visit your house.

Is it the famous haunted bungalow on top of the hill at Taman Tenaga Puchong?

Woah, if i'm going to do all this when staying in hotel room it kinda remind me that something is in the room. In Cantonese " mou dou pin yau" which means there is nothing in the first place but mentally you make their presence felt. As for rules number 6, you mention that spirits likes to hang out in damp and dark places. Usually when staying in hotel I would sleep with the bathroom lights on while my room lights were off. In the middle of the night my room with the air-cond on will become damp and dark, does that mean i'm inviting the spirits to my room?

I think he mean in hotel room with double bed, you should join the two beds together as not to leave a space in between the two beds else ghost will stand there looking at you when you sleep at night. Your mum really saw a female ghost sandwiched in between the two beds??!!!!!!!