Does having sleepless nights when travelling(like hotel, camps etc) means that something is disturbing me?

guys whats the meaning in english for the chinese word jimui???

See what kind of situation...
if in wedding, jimui means bridesmaid
if in your old lady situation, is like sisterhood, same female gender but dont know the name, they just call them jimui

had experience few times. from small till d last 1 when im age at 18. now already early 30..

if not mistaken d 1st time, was durin stayin at primary school. it was 5-6am morning. when on d way wanna go bath, saw something 'cruising'. it was white cloth n distance roughly mayb 200-300m. not sure wat issit, but definetely not human coz its 'cruising'

got 1 time , which i cant rememb clearly which relative dead, but d incident i still can rememb till now. d relative put at kedai b4 right time send to kubur. so at d kedai, i wanna pee but no toilet at below , so i go upstair. when i was upstair, i saw d white paper they cover worship table (put all those worship stuff) like breathing inside. can clearly see d paper moving like got thing breathin inside. i quickly ran below n totally forgot i wanna pee.. issit my imagination or issit real??

d last 1 is when i was in form6. fetch a girl to a terpinggir place near raub, pahang. i cant rememb wat time issit but certainly quite late night. when i was drivin, then suddenly d girl scream says got hantu. i act saw it too, something white cloth was flyin across my car at d height roughly 3m from ground. but i control myself, say nothing. its ur imaginations. its located not too far on d way to jeram besu, raub. even when at jeram besu, we went down n hav some spooky moment. d wind r strong but it doesnt feel as scare as d time saw dat white cloth flyin over.. i think its true coz even d girl saw it...

Wow I love this thread very much..still reading on page 10. Very interesting.  Keep up everybody!!

During my sleeping time on yesterday, suddenly hear a group of young people screaming, making noise in the middle of the night to the jungle at the next building car park and causing all our colleague awake. All of us were damn angry with the noise and i ran into the balcony and stare to them and they could saw me too..

Then i warn them dare to scream again and yes! they really make it... Totally got 3 of them scream together to me. I quickly take out 24 stick of joss stick, light it up all and place it facing the jungle direction and splash the josspaper note " Kai Chin " and shout to the jungle " May all the ghost,spirits from the deep jungle have my offering of joss stick and please recognize those people who screaming and making noise in the middle of the night at the car park there, Please let them can't have a good sleep and disturbing them as fierce as you all could" After finishing my words... All of them were saw the " Kai Chin " flowing in the air and maybe they all were scared.. All of them were vanished from the car park at once...

 

sifu

u always bring joss sticks and kai chin with you??

So impressive.

I found this helpful:

Rule No. 1 – Knock the door before you enter the room
This is said to “inform” the spirits that you are about to enter the room. Its a polite gesture so the spirits might not feel offended if you just barge into their room

Rule No.2 -Flush the toilet as soon as you enter the room
This is say to flush away all bad things

Rule No.3 – Cover the mirrors in the bedroom
Remember to cover the mirrors. This is to ensure that they are not staring back at you from the other end

Rule No.4 – Make sure your shoes are both in opposite faces. Eg, one half of the shoe faces up, the other half faces down
This is to have the yin and yang effect. A natural balance in the room

Rule No.5 - Don’t leave the bed unattended (Double bed rooms)
This only applies if you are not occupying the other bed. Make sure you put things on the bed. This is to ensure you are not inviting any invisible visitors to spend the night in your room. In fact, I have a friend that finds any of his stuff to put around at even the chairs.

Rule No. 6 – Leave the bathroom lights on at all times
Spirits like to hang around at damp and dark places and your bathroom would seem inviting if the rest of the room has lights on. By switching the lights on, spirits might probably find your room inhabitable

Rule No.7 – Always request for double bedroom
This only applies to those traveling alone. Its said that by ordering another bed, you would not face a situation where the spirit might just be sleeping next to you as you can’t even occupy the whole queen sized bed by yourself.

Rule No.8 – Say “NO” to rooms near exits
They say that rooms that are next to exit (emergency) areas usually attract more spirits than other rooms. Why? Its because of the lonely and deserted stairway that attracts these spirits. And because they travel easily (through walls), they tend to linger at the next room just to disturb the unfortunate inhabitant.

Joss sticks ~ A tools to communicate with God and also a tools to summoning ghost..

Kai Chin ~ A paper to open a route to let those ghost approaching...

Candle ~ Its a guideline for the ghost to following the lights..

Example when someone is passed away and the funeral service were helding inside his home, then a white long candle will be place in the entrance near the street as a guideline for the deceased soul which lead them back to their home for chanting before the corpse of the deceased be sent to cremation..

Must take note on the bathroom floor. If u spotted got spil of water on thr floor, better change the room coz that is a sign there is spirit haunting the room. This advise was given by a sifu coz I always listen to Hong Kong radio programme. No play play.

Sifu. U always bring these besides you? I thought u are working in FB line? As ordinary people like me, do I need to bring joss stick and kai chin with me?

Sifu, if I dont know how to handle ghost..then I dont have to bring kai chin coz kai chin like u said can open a route for them to approach me. Plus joss stick and kai chin without prayer also useless?

Better I keep amulet with me rather than joss stick and kai chin. Mind to advise siu tai?
Prayer like scripture or mantra its just use when need to summoning deities or borrowing strength from deities but not Ghost.. For ghost, no need mantra to invite.. but need mantra to ask them returning, if their insist not to return or leave, only will recite mantra to exorcist...

Better to wear amulet if you only want seek for protections...

Sifu,

Where are u live? Genting?

Currently Genting Highlands... Hometown at Kampar..

You are Genting staff? Which RSC are u staying? We have common here. I used to stayed at RSC1.