Hi,

I am a senior member in this forum, but for confidential purpose i created this new account to post some of the question that i'm afraid to ask. I have been suffering Premature ejaculation for almost 5 years. I can only last around 1 MIN (WTF ) becoz of excessive masterbation from the past. I'm 25 this year. Becoz of this, i totally lost confident in finding gf due to low self esteem (afraid that i can't satisfy her). Now as i'm getting older, this has turned into a VERY SERIOUS ISSUE. Anyone here care to give some idea on how to treat this issue? I'm going to see a doctor soon. But before that, anything i can do at the moment??

I'm planning to circumcise, as i heard that after circumcision, u can last longer in bed as it reduces the Di*khead sensitivity.

HAIZ... I HAVE TO CURE THIS FAST!!!!! I NEED TO FIND GF ALREADY..

So, forumer please help me out by asnwering this if you can.
1. Any good doctor to recommend?
2. I should go for chinese treatment or hospital?
3. Anything that i can or should do at the mean time?

This post has been edited by lonelyboyboy: Sep 2 2010, 08:59 AM

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how many time u masturbate per week...??

Hi. I read some articles saying it is due to psychological problem.. got to try to solve it from your own mind. Well.. not sure. But, my opinion is to see hospital doctor - more professional.

I dont think this matter anymore. As what done is done, all i need to do now is try to prolong my ejaculation time.

Bro,

circumcision would help a bit i think, better seek professional help. Try to avoid any ubat kuat for the time being.

try this when masturbate..

keep a calm mind..

hold your fap when about to SHOOTING SOLUTION..

keep doing that for 10 minit.. only then you allowed to shoot..

sex problem came from psychological problem..

so fix your mental 1st... (ie stress, tired)

if you can get stiff your physically find..

This post has been edited by sleep_snore: Sep 2 2010, 09:16 AM

so gf = sex? that's y u need a gf ?

if i'm not mistaken it's not so much to do with the Fapping, it's a matter of mind control, when ur taking a leaking, try to stop and hold, then let go, do this a few reps, start with like 2 secs hold, then move on, there are other ways for this too, but if your having problems i suggest that you seek professional help 1st.

good luck and all the best

u can try out d condom man at garage sales.. d domdom he sell will delay ur ejaculation...


another way is sunat. means throw away d D*ck head's skin. it can make u prolong ur ejaculation PLUS, more healthy (more cleaner).

edited: typo

This post has been edited by low yat 82: Sep 2 2010, 02:06 PM

Thanks for the support. What i'm sad is becoz whenever there is gathering my cousin will start asking me. "Hey Where is ur gf!" Might sound arrogant, but i believe i'm not the bad looking type of person. If i put effort, i dun think getting a gf is hard at all, but only the maintaining part is hard coz i got PE!! she wont feel happy and satisfy with me.

oh cummon dude, getting a gf doesn't mean you guys will go to bed the night you guys date right?

start dating and don't relate gf = sex in your mind, that will ease the burden.
by the way, have you have sex before? how do you find out your PE? handjob?

go get a gf 1st then talk lerrr...

masturbate n intercourse r abit diffrent... like i said, u can try out d dom dom which i mentioned b4, sadly, i cant find d topic, but heres d guy http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showuser=4356

it needs cho cho train if u wanna cum.. unless she is super tight, then its diffrent story XD

well like wat every one says. it has to do with mentally. well what you can try to do is, you can start with strengthening the PC muscle.
do a google search on that topic and you can get started. secondly its your mind...cause usually when you masturbate, your main goal is to ejaculate quick and this over time has caused ur natural reaction to cum when ever u masturbate. for this, when you masturbate, pace urself and when u come close to excitement, slowdown or stop...try to hold back. then when the feeling is gone, continue again.
well i have no idea wat doctor to go to for these problem. but then working out ur lower muscles helps. this is from my experience.

and bro...having a gf and having sex are 2 different matter. if you GF loves you for who you are, she will help you through this problem too. Trust me. i know.
strong motivation and encouragement from your opposite partner helps in building the mental profile in yourself.

So feel free to find someone who loves you more then you love yourself.

I think premature ejaculation is able to be solved by your mind by focusing your energy on some places else and some breathing. Or even masturbate before having sex, that will help abit, but it might not be as hard as before la.

During sex, try to focus ur energy on someplace else, instead of hardening your butt, try hardening your abs. slow down ur breathing, while ur at it. Jusr adjust around the sex positions.

Do not be embarrassed because u are not able to satisfy her on the first try, we learn and we grow with the partner. As you go along, try to read more about it. Like some position can last longer compared to others, and some is more intense for the female.

Sometimes time is not everything, you can increase the pleasure to the woman to make her ejaculate faster. and a man do not just use the penis to satisfy the penis, put extra effort on the foreplay, this will help alot, kiss her, carress her and let her feel loved.

Lastly, you can finger, try to find her sensitive spots. A man have is able to satisfy a woman with their second penis, which is the almighty finger.

Just do not feel down, no one is a pro on the first few tries. Grow with her, if she loves you, she will think the same.

This is some advice from a sad sad boy.

You've just exposed something ......

Btw consult an urologist if you're looking for serious medical advice. Take the forumers' advices with a bucket of salt.

hahaha....tat was fast of u Syd. hahaha. but then yes i was in tat boat before....but then over time it was over comed.
now we both are happy bunnies...hahaha...

Kegel Exercises fir Men : http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html

circumcised canhelp you a little bit in prolonging your ejaculation, but the important thing is in your head. maybe have anxiety problem.
you also can use crim virile for men which i currently use now. can help you to have better control of your penis, enlarge your penis and treat premature ejaculation.

well i dun think theres any difference b4 and after circumcision dat will prolong your ejaculation..dats from my experience...better you try out gambir sarawak,vco31 ..these 2 product can make you last longer...

Mate. sometimes PE is not just due to mental issues. could be physical.
If you are uncircumcised and have issues pulling the foreskin back, you might be suffering from phimosis. or just happen to have very sensitive frenulum.

In which, it is wiser to consult a doctor before making any rash decision.

Masturbation has absolutely no correlation with premature ejaculation.