There's a huge difference between lust and love. If you truly love someone, you'll stand by her side no matter what happens, and Chris Medina is a good example of this type of person. It really shows that a true relationship is about commitment and the genuine desire to take care of your loved ones.
Words are cheap, just take 5 minutes and watch the video. You'll know what I mean.
For the guys: Think yourself in Chris shoes, ask yourself, could you have done the same in this situation? Most of the guys with a lustful mindset would've left Juliana after that accident. And you have nothing to blame yourself for, it just shows that you never truly loved her in the very first place. All you had was lustful feelings when she was still beautiful and gorgeous. Nothing more. For the women:*Hands a tissue* Sorry if the vid made u cry... here's another one: Chris Medina - What Are Words (New single currently #83 on Top 100 billboards with 1.6 million Youtube views) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQY4dIxY1H4
That was the saddest thing ... luckily she still has him.
But this one, even more sad but luckily she's a strong girl.
Sex is just a bonus. No one should expect your partner to give you something and if you give something to your partner, dont ever expect to have something in return. You pamper her and give her love and you want her to give you sex in return, what's that ? Exchange/trade with body ?
And why compare Employee & Employer ? What, she's the boss and you're the worker ? You give her love and cares her because it's a job to you ?
Yes, sex does pulls each other closer and relationship MIGHT last longer but there are also a lot of activity and things that you can do to improve your relationship, not just sex.
She takes sex serious and will not give it easily, you complain nothing return from her after things you've done to her. She slept with all her exs before and is open minded, you complain she's a cheap whore and sleeping around.
if u think sex is such a big deal, den dont cheapen it. when making love, not just body pleasure, there is a emotional connection as well. when u hav sex, u'll see.... & yes, it's a trade, a trade of love for love......
Dat is just metaphor to explain expectation & meeting expectation. in this metaphor, both he & she is boss & employee @ the same time coz both has expectation on each other.
yes, so y dont do those other activity, as well as sex too. maximized the growth.
if i can show my love in a way she wants it, why cant she show me her love in a way i wan it. dis door shud swing both way.....
Well then Im sad to see nowadays how ppl treat relationship, 21st century ~
Expectation sounds more like 75% of MUST, the suitable word would be HOPE. I hope my bf to give me a surprise VS I expect my bf to give me a surprise, see the differences ?
Then why are you making it sounds like, ALL I WANT FROM YOU GF IS SEX ? SEX = EVERYTHING ? If the girl doesnt want to have sex before marriage or until a certain time, she will return something you like cook a meal for you, give you a body massage, manja with you, sweet talk, kisses and hugs. Why is must ppl make it like SEX is the only thing that could satify me ?
I stand by wat i said just now, & i am puzzle dat in 21st century, still people dun understand the different of having sex & making love?
bcoz real guy dun pray to got & HOPE to get laid, he go out there & work for it instead.....
it's sex + (she will return something you like cook a meal for you, give you a body massage, manja with you, sweet talk, kisses and hugs) = everything it's incomplete without either 1.?
let me ask u, if a guy u interested on but not in relationship yet, promise dat only will pampered, love, manja u after marriage, will u married him?
Ya right making love, only that will make you feel loved ? Then do you buy diamonds to your gf, girls that you slept with ? Diamonds make a girl feel 100% of love and it's 21st century, pls also accept the facts that girls are hoping for more right now. So you want sex, buy me diamonds ok ? Dont say the girl is materialistic, you said relationship is about trading right ?
REAL guy is ok with NO SEX with their girl because they UNDERSTAND it's about BOTH PARTY not HIS LIL BROTHER and WITHOUT SEX, they STILL LOVE their girl deep in their soul.
Really ? Then why are still ppl breaking up after they have sex + (she will return something you like cook a meal for you, give you a body massage, manja with you, sweet talk, kisses and hugs) ??? Why still got ppl divorce, they had all the about and 1 more thing, kids. That's why they say, If you cannot take the responsibility to let her wear a wedding dress, do not take off her shirt. If you only have 1 gf and both of you already had sex, then I hope you can treat her seriously, same goes to her. If you have exs and you slept with them before, yeah you give her sex, she give you sex, and ? Why is it full stop edi ??
My bestie with her bf together for 5 years, no sex at all, first she's scare and her bf's a christian, the bf's mom doesnt allow. Now the bf requests for seperate, reason ? You know I know, bcuz of sex. Yes, it's so hard to tahan, my bestie is hot and already 5 years, but if he cannot wait a few more years until both of them get marry, he really love her ? I doubt.
Haha, I LOL !! Another make no sense example you made. Is there really this kind of ppl ? Where you like someone but do not want give even abit of love ? Even when you see a cute stray dog or cat, you will go kacau or feed it. Ok maybe there are these kind of weird ppl, then my answer to you is, I WANT A NORMAL BOYFRIEND NOT A WEIRDO BOYFRIEND.
WILL YOU INTERESTED IN A GIRL WHO IS 100% SEX EXPERT, GOOD KISSER, GREAT CHEF, SUPER HOT, GOOD AT CLEANING AND ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BUT SHE HAS THESE HOBBIES, EAT HER OWN NOSE SHIT AND WANTS KIDS FROM OTHER GUY , DOESNT WANT TO HAVE ONE WITH YOU???
isn't it make no sense ? Ya, becuz you gave me a make no sense question so i give one to you too
Your so called 'real points' are laughable. It doesn't matter whether Chris and Juliana had sex or not before the accident.
What matters is that after the accident when sex is no longer a factor in their relationship, Chris didn't leave her. He stayed by her side, with all the difficult post brain-trauma recovery steps. That's what I call a real man who sticks to his convictions, that's true love instead of mere lust.
Now do me a favor and go dump your head in a toilet bowl and flush it, come up with better arguments next time.
Yeah, yes they MIGHT had sex before the accident but now ? No more sex with her until she's fully recovered.
You know what, after reading your comments, maybe I should sit back and laugh out loud with his retardness and his make no sense examples ( still laughing with the weird man ) A real man, a real woman with mature thoughts and deeply in love with each others, doesnt need SEX to perfect their relationship. Those who "MAKE LOVE" when they think SEX make relationship stable and stronger, ask them how many exs they slept with and why still break up ??
Pls go dump your head in a toilet bowl and flush it
Mar 12 2011, 06:45 AM
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