it is proven that, people can have sex without love or being in a relationship (not that i condone it).

similarly, it is also proven that, people can be in love or in a great relationship without sex.

sex in a relationship matters to some (when either/both partner has sex spike/drives) but the minute a partner has to ask for it just doesn't seem right to me. if both partners have high sexual desires, good for them. if both are of different extremes, there must be an understanding between both parties to practice moderation so that everyone can function happily. same goes for other craves, if your gf/bf/spouse craves midnight snacks or supper, you must give in sometimes or suprise him/her even if you despise eating late at night.

everybody loves suprises. if you want someone to treat you right or push your right buttons, you must also understand him/her and do the same.

happy couples/partners play together - be it sex, sports, food, movies etc. or just plain staring at the stars.

This post has been edited by mnkh27: Dec 20 2010, 07:52 PM