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Serious Relationship with sex VS Non sex relationship., Boys and Girls, pls comment.

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mIssfROGY
post Dec 15 2010, 08:20 PM

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sex is not impt in a rship BUT i personally feel that we shd test drive 1st lorr.....i mean if the rship ends up in marriage, we are talking about whole life happiness here man unless u pray pray marry la. Imagine (gals) getting a guy who cannot get it up?? this is wat i read about this virgin girl marrying her bf ....later found out he cant get it up @@
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post Dec 16 2010, 12:54 AM

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QUOTE(HIM @ Dec 15 2010, 10:21 PM)
I am curious here, how's the story ended?
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She stayed with him but the mother in law blamed her for not being able to bear her a grandson. She didnt know the fault lies with her own son.
N the son was being a real pain in the arse. She felt cheated into the marriage but still want to stay on.
Btw reading it again, realised that its not totally "not functioning", just not truly functioning.

Found the link;
http://www.malaysiabrides.com/forum/index....showtopic=21155


Added on December 16, 2010, 1:01 am
QUOTE(spunkberry @ Dec 15 2010, 11:37 PM)
I don't understand why people use this as an excuse to justify pre-marital sex. if you got to the point of marriage, and you found out that your partner has ED, and you run away or divorce him, then I have to seriously wonder about what your priorities are about marriage.
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Well nobody ask you to believe in premarital sex n do the same. Afterall its your own problem you end up with no sex for the rest of your life who cares.
Nobody said anything about divorcing either.
Its one's choice n preferences.
I m just saying that there are cases like this n i definitely do not want to die a virgin shocking.gif
And its easy for you to say because it didnt happen to you . smile.gif

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post Dec 16 2010, 01:16 AM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 16 2010, 01:05 AM)
I can help you with that.  brows.gif
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sweat.gif durh not every tom d*** n harry laaaaaaa
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post Dec 16 2010, 01:24 AM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 16 2010, 01:21 AM)
But I'm not any tom d*** and harry. I'm goodbrows.gif
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Walau so perasan, is that self claimed or wellknown?
Coming from yourself.......i m doubtful whistling.gif
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post Dec 16 2010, 02:00 AM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 16 2010, 01:28 AM)
I do not simply make claims. I offer free trial.  brows.gif
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Sometimes when its too good to be true, it is too good to be true...
Free Trials that are too easy to come by making it not so interesting anymore wink.gif
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post Dec 16 2010, 02:30 AM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Dec 16 2010, 02:17 AM)
why does ED mean you'll end up with no sex for the rest of your life? Are you not going to even try to help him through it? Some partner you are.
also, there are worse things in life than ED ... so whether it happens to my partner or not, life could be a hell of a lot worse than "omg ED!"
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LOL i am just being realistic. Trust me....even the most conservative person will not say this when it happens to them biggrin.gif
Ya lots worse case than ED, like i said be4, sex is not impt in a rship.
But to me, once married i would want it to be forever...i want to choose WISELY wink.gif
Just read the link that i gave....real life experience from a conservative person with an ED partner. Please dont lecture me about your non-existent experience about this.

btw, ED might not be necessary a problem to the gal (LOve is Blind)....but most of the times on the guy, making him stress, guilty, not feeling like a man and etc etc. The whole thing is just going to take a toll on your rship.
And i didnt say i 100% wont stand by my guy if he has ED....if i do marry one, it will be my choice. AT least i am making an INFORMED CHOICE.

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post Dec 16 2010, 01:43 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Dec 16 2010, 01:01 PM)
Two sentences do not a lecture make, thankyouverymuch.

My non-existent experience? and you have experience how? because you read this article? PUH-LEESE!
That's like saying you're an engineer because you finished reading one book about it.
Also, it's either you stand by him or you don't ... what's this percentage?
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well, i know myself well enuf to know that i dun prefer landing myself with an ED person if given the choice. the article was just an example.

yeahh u r the greatest woman on earth that a man can have...but dont speak too soon icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Dec 17 2010, 04:13 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Dec 17 2010, 12:44 AM)
oh oh oh no no I'm not the greatest woman a man can have, but I at least make an effort not to be shallow like the rest of my gender.
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self praise...i like it rclxms.gif These things didnt happen to either of us to know what we will do, but yet u are already stereotyping.
just because ppl dont see it your way, she became shallow thumbup.gif
Your logic is NO 1 wub.gif
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post Dec 18 2010, 12:02 AM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Dec 17 2010, 08:04 PM)
who said anything about you?
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?? DId i say you were talking about me? whistling.gif
So u r huh.....else why would u think so? shocking.gif


Added on December 18, 2010, 12:08 am
QUOTE(sparda @ Dec 17 2010, 11:11 PM)
In my humble opinion, this impression is caused by selection bias. There are 4 possible scenarios for the development of a relationship.

1. They do not have sex and the relationship lasts a long time.
2. They do have sex and the relationship lasts a long time.
3. They do not have sex and the relationship lasts a short time.
4. They do have sex and the relationship lasts a short time.

From what I've seen, all these scenarios are perfectly possible, and to be frank, I think having sex or not does not impact the length of the relationship.

However, many people have the following perception:

If 1 or 2 happens, people don't think much of it. The couple is happy and all is fine.

If 3 happens, people ascribe the breakup to other reasons, maybe character differences or arguments or whatever. However when 4 happens, people tend to ascribe the breakup to having sex and "use and dump" etc. Now this is obviously selection bias, as there are many possible reasons for a breakup, even when sex is occurring.

Now, the thing is "use and dump" may only consist of 10 percent of the breakup reasons, but people keep focusing on them and talking about them. Other reasons like incompatibility, falling out of love or bad tempers tend to be regarded as "mundane" and not worth noticing.

The analogy is that shark attacks kill less than 100 people every year while asthma kills millions, but shark attacks get big headlines in the newspaper.
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Yeap agree. thumbup.gif

This post has been edited by mIssfROGY: Dec 18 2010, 12:09 AM

 

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