Given the relationship on both terms are good, relationship with sex is better than one that doesn't involve sex.

Why? Well, lets say you have a lover and he/she is loving, caring, sweet, everything you could want in a life partner. Give the relationship a full 100 points. Everything's goin great and you're happy with it.

Then your partner offers you an extra 10 points. The ability to have sex with them and you've got nothing to lose. It's either you add up the points to 110 or keep it at 100.

Then the obvious question comes: "Hmm why not?"

Alas, it ain't that easy. We humans are governed by moral codes as defined by our own faith or logic. Ultimately it's up to you as an individual to do what you feel is okay or not.

Personally, I believe sex is not necessary in a relationship before marriage. I think the whole point of being in a relationship is to get to know somebody and identify whether you can honestly love that person and spend the rest of your life with said person. Having sex with them is just an activity to relieve yourself of the sexual tension and letting you know some minor facts (level of horniness, dominating or not, etc.) that I feel is irrelevant to being in love.

This post has been edited by lamusiqa: Apr 5 2011, 07:54 PM