Dec 20 2010, 10:57 AM
QUOTE(evanesence117 @ Sep 4 2010, 04:49 PM)
well I don't know but to me I think a relationship could make do without sex, I feel the other more important factors like communication, shared interest and so on are more important, I feel the emotional connection is more important than a physical one. when a courtship turns into a sex fest that is just plain lust not love
Finally one of the wise replies spotted.QUOTE(onelove89 @ Sep 6 2010, 08:57 PM)
I reckon sex and marriage are sacred, and first time sex should be after marriage. I support abstinence all the way =P of course, this road is not easy as there'll be a lot of temptations, no doubt.
Another wise reply here.QUOTE(spunkberry @ Sep 19 2010, 02:51 AM)
I love how people use "this is the 21st century" as a reason. It's not a good enough reason. Give me something better.
People nowadays want things to go FAST, they don't like to wait, they don't like to endure suffering, they don't like to resist temptations; and therefore they are impatient to wait until marriage.QUOTE(hannjack @ Sep 19 2010, 03:07 PM)
Hey , what else do you need better ? We don't do things following the trend , but we do things according to ERA.
IE, we work smart & study smart, instead of working & studying hard like during the 1980s
As time passes, we need to adapt overselves to all the new changes in our surrounding, you can choose to don't accept it, but eventually you'll still accept the fact that the society is changing.
I don't HELL care what's 21st century or what , i just do it because I WANT IT . simple .
i didnt say its a must or a trend dude, we are resposible to ourselves, We do things because we know we need it .
and of course, love must come before sex among the relationship ,ONS & etc is different topic. =)
hhhaha good one , do things like a PIRATE XDD
The world is changing every day, changing to be better or worse is another case. Resisting temptation is never easy, I know, but it should not be a reason why you want to follow what others are doing in this 20th century, releasing the urge of sex before marriage, right?IE, we work smart & study smart, instead of working & studying hard like during the 1980s
As time passes, we need to adapt overselves to all the new changes in our surrounding, you can choose to don't accept it, but eventually you'll still accept the fact that the society is changing.
I don't HELL care what's 21st century or what , i just do it because I WANT IT . simple .
i didnt say its a must or a trend dude, we are resposible to ourselves, We do things because we know we need it .
and of course, love must come before sex among the relationship ,ONS & etc is different topic. =)
hhhaha good one , do things like a PIRATE XDD
QUOTE(Anime-FAN @ Sep 28 2010, 03:51 AM)
For me, I'd had sex for all my relationships I've been through before. For me without sex the relationships is meaningless. What I've been through is that we bond better and more with sex.
If it is meaningful to have sex before marriage, then these gals will not be your EX now, right?
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