Added on March 15, 2011, 8:03 amQUOTE(spanker @ Mar 14 2011, 03:24 AM)
Actually, agree that
3somes are healthy (minus the STDs of course). Just because YOU are too uptight and don't know how to handle your jealousy does not make it bad thing.
QUOTE(spanker @ Mar 13 2011, 11:33 PM)
To be honest, I never regret cheating because I consciously decided to do it. It's not like I can't help myself, unless it's a ONS thing, which I don't consider cheating anyway.
But having 2 girls at the same time is a REALLY hard juggling act, and is totally NOT worth the trouble.Congrats, you managed to pwn yourself.
QUOTE(kalvianna @ Mar 14 2011, 09:03 AM)
is it really matter to have a sex? sex is just a physical intimacy. meanwhile love is come from heart, our feeling.
QUOTE(coolio2199 @ Mar 14 2011, 06:02 PM)
IMO,if a guy really loves a girl I BELIEVE he will not mind whether they are having sex/making love or not.Will you stop loving her if she's not making love with you?
FYI,I started to haven sex/making love with my ex-gf on the 3rd years onwards (I'm not a saint and I honestly have a man's needs but if you really love her,respect her decisions on this as some girls do take this matter VERY seriously)
I know a lot of you guys would be ROFL (so did my friends back then) but I'm proud of this though
Cheers~
QUOTE(CocoMonGo @ Mar 14 2011, 06:35 PM)
I dont think sex is a must during dating and bf/gf period, but would help in one - like some here who have already said.. it is a plus in a true relationship where both party genuinely love each other. Sometimes it could also be due to religion where being abstinent is called for and both partners should also respect that if the other observes it.
Spoken like true gentlemen. Here, have a cookie. You guys win at life.

Some people have no idea how to differentiate between love and lust. One is emotional, the other is physical.
To argue back and forth about which one is more essential is pointless, each individual has different needs.
What truly matters is when old age creeps upon you unexpectedly, or when life throws its cruel challenges at you...Which of the two do you think will prevail? A food for thought.
This post has been edited by Priapuseros: Mar 15 2011, 08:10 AM