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Serious Relationship with sex VS Non sex relationship., Boys and Girls, pls comment.

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Priapuseros
post Mar 12 2011, 02:41 AM

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There's a huge difference between lust and love. If you truly love someone, you'll stand by her side no matter what happens, and Chris Medina is a good example of this type of person. It really shows that a true relationship is about commitment and the genuine desire to take care of your loved ones.

Words are cheap, just take 5 minutes and watch the video. You'll know what I mean.




For the guys: Think yourself in Chris shoes, ask yourself, could you have done the same in this situation? Most of the guys with a lustful mindset would've left Juliana after that accident. And you have nothing to blame yourself for, it just shows that you never truly loved her in the very first place. All you had was lustful feelings when she was still beautiful and gorgeous. Nothing more.



For the women:
*Hands a tissue* Sorry if the vid made u cry... cry.gif here's another one: tongue.gif
Chris Medina - What Are Words (New single currently #83 on Top 100 billboards with 1.6 million Youtube views)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQY4dIxY1H4




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post Mar 14 2011, 02:36 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 11 2011, 11:55 PM)
u fail to see dat dey probably already had sex....
Duh. Why are you pointing out the obvious? Do you think Americans are like you Malaysians?
Most of them lose their virginity in high school. Pssh.

QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 11 2011, 11:55 PM)
dats y such strong relationship were built......
You're a fckin idiot to think that sex is the sole factor of the strength of their relationship.
You've obviously never been in a real relationship.

QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 13 2011, 12:18 PM)
& y no 1 answer me this?
You type like a retard, that's why. sweat.gif

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Priapuseros
post Mar 14 2011, 02:42 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 13 2011, 01:40 PM)
so u're admitting that sex does play a role in building a strong relationship........

& since wen did i mention sex is the SOLE factor?
dint i mentioned ealier that couple shud do the other stud like loving, pampering each other plus ex as well to maximized the relationship growth?
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Oh yeah couples should totally do other studs. Threesomes for a healthy relationship growth, people. Listen to tech3910, he's a fckin genius. rclxms.gif
Priapuseros
post Mar 14 2011, 02:49 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 13 2011, 01:46 PM)
typos la...i mean "stuff"
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You felt the need to point that out? How stupid can you be, man?
Doesn't change the fact that you're a retard. Go back to school and learn how to type, loser. tongue.gif



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post Mar 14 2011, 03:10 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 13 2011, 01:52 PM)
it's funny dat u pick on small matter like typos (yeah, like u nvr typos b4).....
but u avoid the real points that i pointed out......interesting......
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Your so called 'real points' are laughable. It doesn't matter whether Chris and Juliana had sex or not before the accident.

What matters is that after the accident when sex is no longer a factor in their relationship, Chris didn't leave her. He stayed by her side, with all the difficult post brain-trauma recovery steps. That's what I call a real man who sticks to his convictions, that's true love instead of mere lust.

Now do me a favor and go dump your head in a toilet bowl and flush it, come up with better arguments next time. thumbup.gif

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post Mar 14 2011, 03:31 AM

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QUOTE(uest91 @ Mar 13 2011, 02:22 PM)
Yeah, yes they MIGHT had sex before the accident but now ? No more sex with her until she's fully recovered.

You know what, after reading your comments, maybe I should sit back and laugh out loud with his retardness and his make no sense examples ( still laughing with the weird man  biggrin.gif )
A real man, a real woman with mature thoughts and deeply in love with each others, doesnt need SEX to perfect their relationship.
Those who "MAKE LOVE" when they think SEX make relationship stable and stronger, ask them how many exs they slept with and why still break up ??

Pls go dump your head in a toilet bowl and flush it
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LOL@tech3910 . rclxms.gif You go girl~! drool.gif


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post Mar 15 2011, 07:52 AM

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QUOTE(spanker @ Mar 14 2011, 03:24 AM)
Actually, agree that 3somes are healthy (minus the STDs of course). Just because YOU are too uptight and don't know how to handle your jealousy does not make it bad thing.
QUOTE(spanker @ Mar 13 2011, 11:33 PM)
To be honest, I never regret cheating because I consciously decided to do it. It's not like I can't help myself, unless it's a ONS thing, which I don't consider cheating anyway.

But having 2 girls at the same time is a REALLY hard juggling act, and is totally NOT worth the trouble.
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Congrats, you managed to pwn yourself. doh.gif

QUOTE(kalvianna @ Mar 14 2011, 09:03 AM)
is it really matter to have a sex? sex is just a physical intimacy. meanwhile love is come from heart, our feeling.
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QUOTE(coolio2199 @ Mar 14 2011, 06:02 PM)
IMO,if a guy really loves a girl I BELIEVE he will not mind whether they are having sex/making love or not.Will you stop loving her if she's not making love with you?

FYI,I started to haven sex/making love with my ex-gf on the 3rd years onwards (I'm not a saint and I honestly have a man's needs but if you really love her,respect her decisions on this as some girls do take this matter VERY seriously)

I know a lot of you guys would be ROFL (so did my friends back then) but I'm proud of this though

Cheers~
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QUOTE(CocoMonGo @ Mar 14 2011, 06:35 PM)
I dont think sex is a must during dating and bf/gf period, but would help in one - like some here who have already said.. it is a plus in a true relationship where both party genuinely love each other. Sometimes it could also be due to religion where being abstinent is called for and both partners should also respect that if the other observes it.
Spoken like true gentlemen. Here, have a cookie. You guys win at life. thumbup.gif
Some people have no idea how to differentiate between love and lust. One is emotional, the other is physical.

To argue back and forth about which one is more essential is pointless, each individual has different needs.
What truly matters is when old age creeps upon you unexpectedly, or when life throws its cruel challenges at you...

Which of the two do you think will prevail? A food for thought. smile.gif

This post has been edited by Priapuseros: Mar 15 2011, 08:10 AM

 

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