QUOTE(tech3910 @ Mar 8 2011, 04:58 PM)
maybe u shud break up.......
or make a deal wit ur gf dat u're allow to hav sex wit other girls, but no emotional string attach.
That's not good. Been together for years now.
QUOTE(spunkberry @ Mar 8 2011, 11:39 PM)
I see where you're going, but it doesn't make sense to me.
why would you get a bonus for holidays?
you should be getting bonuses because you're doing well in the company or because the company is doing well, not because it's a holiday.
most likely because she was raised to save herself for marriage and she had sex with you because you asked for it and she thought it would keep you from hounding her about it later. Well, now she doesn't want it as often anymore, because she's feeling guilty, and you are complaining about it.
The worst she was expecting has arrived.
Not, i didn't ask for it in first place just naturally happen. We are enjoying it for first 4 months, as i say… even discuss about like how to make ourself feel more comfortable when having sex that time.
but it all change when both of us started to get busy and then i would say, influence from friend i guess
Well, i am complaining it in first place, but not anymore, because as i say, if i am really only wanted to have sex, 4 years ago would have end this relationship and find other girl.
The vow and the commitment i make with her before we are together, i always uphold. I love her, and i know there is up and downs.
And one more thing, it's not she doesn't want it as often anymore, it just as i say, we have open discussion and she tell me her reason as well, which i understand and respect.
this is 4 years ago, now, we are still together and, i would say, still like normal couple, sometimes has few quarrel, then ok again.