when u're a virgin, u think of sex as this holy donno what omg dramatic I-can-do-it-only-with-the-ONE thing

sooner or later u realize hey, it's just another activity u share n have fun with with your partner, an activity where u can joke about, learn, play, de-stress, get closer. Just like an activity such as err.. playing jet ski or a candle light dinner together with ur partner. it's no big deal.

just like u can "tam" (cantonese) a girl with a good pampering dinner, u can do the same with a good session of sex. Just like a session at spa will remove ur daily stress, a good sex can do the same too.

The thing with sex is, good sex requires lotsa virtues like communication, trust, confidence, not da cup size or tat sexy lingerie (they do affect somehow lol) .. it's da exploring n exchanging these virtues between couples that makes sex such a great activity to enhance intimacy between couple.

if u're able to do that with another activity say .... some sports, ok lah then u probably don't need sex. But sex gives a couple exclusive 1-to-1 time to learn n develop trust about each other n fulfill da animal instinct inside, and also serves as great stories to keep talking about between da couple .. to me no other activities come close to achieving that lol so my relationship has to have sex included. Besides, without sex, what makes ur partner different from other male/female intimate but platonic friends? hmm..

just don't see the point of abstaining when u already have all the right reasons to take on this fun activity, ok that's assuming u be responsible and do it SAFELY.

Besides, only learn sex after getting married? Too freaking late man! Good sex needs lotsa practice!

This post has been edited by LanEvo7: Sep 5 2010, 11:47 AM