Yes she really wants to come to my house to visit me but I am really worried it'll offend my parents.I told her that I'll go visit her instead.

Yeah you're right.Like I said she has a stable job right now in Hong Leong bank but Singaporean employers have invited her for interview.

Yeah I've actually been searching online for part time courses in marketing for her.Hope to find an affordable marketing diploma degrees for her if possible.But I have to look at my situation as well as I'm just a fresh graduate and I've still got my brother and sister to support so I can't just jump into helping my girlfriend just like that.I will only support her if I know I can.

Yeah that's the thing.Maybe because my mom's from a poor family last time and she just wants a better life for me.Probably that's why she prefers a girl who has a degree and is a professional like a lawyer,doctor etc???It is really annoying.

i think its not about career.
the parents concern about knowledge n level of thinking..

if u go to univ just for ur career sake..i must say that's quite pathetic..

well.at least they go to univ..
if i am a dropped out of harvard.i wont mind telling ppl that.how many of us go to harvard?

marrying is about connecting 2 families my dear fren.
its not about individual interest..

well then.its never too late to continue study...if the gf really care bout studying

going to univ cant prove u to be knowledgeable but in general term, obviously it looks n sounds better than someone without degree.rite?
but i do believe when u associate with ppl who gain masters n phd, ur level of thinking and mindset could be better..

that's shud b the purpose of marriage.
either its fix.or u choose urself ur candidates..
its all about family.

if not, better go get a house n live with gf/bf without marriage.
still cn hv sex n babies as long as the religion permit..
plus can help urself frm spending too much on wedding ceremony...

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Added on July 5, 2010, 7:08 am

ppl with knowledge isnt poor.. 

Normally I advocate family blessings and all but I don't suffer fools and blatant hypocrites. So I'm gonna tell you a story bout my spineless idiot of a friend.

Like you(and from Johor), his parents doesn't like his gd but he went on marrying her when his parent said they'll try to warm up and accept her. 6 months later, they filed for divorce cos he said his wife is having an affair. His source of info: his parents, claimed to be from a PI they hired. PI turns out to be kopitiam apek. Kopitiam apek saw her walking to lunch with another man. Kopitiam apek left out the part he saw other colleagues walking behind them. But kopitiam apek is not the culprit cos parents tokok tambah saying than she was disrespectful to family altar, and craps like these including refusal to do household chores. The chores she refused was to wash all 4 bathrooms everyday despite working fulltime. Did I mention washing undergarments of his sisters? He's not bloody miserable and stalking his ex wife.

Moral of the story: parents like these will do anything to be rid of your wife of not their choice. When you marry your gf, move far away from them. My inside scope is from my friend's mom. She complaint to me bout the girl and told me she has everything planned. Which I hear bout her victory 3 months later. Your parents are too selfish. They want what they want rather than what their son wants.

cant say the parents selfish lar. after all the hardship bringin the son, put him thro uni, no easy leh.

they wish the best for the son.

Haha yup that's what I plan to do when I'm back home.Probably talk to them nicely over dinner at home about it.I have tried that on skype that time as they brought the matter up and I really did get a nice scolding from both of them.My dad didn't gave me a chance to say anything as he kept scolding scolding saying the same thing over and over again " All I wanted to say was how can you judge a person like that when you haven't even met her and he said he doesn't want to meet her.He said he'll be very stubborn etc etc(really childish sometimes I would say sigh but still he's my dad) as for my mom she was also adding more oil to the fire as she was sitting beside my dad.

Haha I guess I was pampered quite alot last time too since I'm the eldest but I remembered once I got caned for crying cause I wanted a computer when I was 9 hahaha.Actually come to think of it I got caned alot haha but I was trained to do housework too so I guess it's good training but my parents still got me the toys I wanted haha.

I don't know about you but can you guys really click? Or are you just choosing her because you have no gf?

I myself have talked to non-degree holders before and I do find that their mindset is different. Hard to me to explain but they just don't get it sometimes.

Same here. I don't click well too. Only talk bout general stuff. No serious talks usually. Especially if it pertains to work.

She loves u, got 'degree' in sex and can give birth is wat matters...

Good for you then... I can't click well with many CE but when I do, we're good. The kind to see each other a year later with complete BS for few hours. But I tot it's about degree holders and high school diploma holders...

pls elaborate...

I don't know about you but can you guys really click? Or are you just choosing her because you have no gf?

I myself have talked to non-degree holders before and I do find that their mindset is different. Hard to me to explain but they just don't get it sometimes.

Same here. I don't click well too. Only talk bout general stuff. No serious talks usually. Especially if it pertains to work.

Don't dump your girl friend please. I beg you.