OK gentlemen who will be reading this thread please allow me to let you in on a secret , See the truth of the matter about the dance of the s3xes is that , When a guy and girl meet , The girl makes immediate judgement's as to what you will be for her , this subconscious processing takes place in about 5 minutes or so , Then you will fall under the category or either friend our potential lover. Now from what I have seen and experienced. Its always us guyz who get the impression that a woman is into us , when in actuality she has alrady placed you as a friend inside her head. SO we keep being sweet and nice and being close and good and all that nice guy rubbish ! , THen lo and behold , The woman who you though liked Or loved you , Goes out with some other guy , comes to you and sez who she thinks that the guy was so hot... And you being nice and all secretly cry inside out of the great mishap which has just happened...

The fact of the mattter is that when a woman meets a guy and classifies him as just a FRIEND , it is indeed a negative classification, Before getting all mad and stuff hold on let me finish... Lets say a girl and a guy are good friends for such a long time , and then suddenly the guy or the girl in this relationship will find some mate , How will you feel , There is definitely going to be some jealousy and sadness there. But eventually you will be ok , But what about the heartbreak you have sustained as a result of it. Now if you argue with me that no no i dont feel anything (then that is not a normal hetrosexual reponse) ,

It all boils down to the fact that they guy and girl should be clear at the beginning and if they agree they can be freinds and hang out and do all the stuff that women do , But the question still remains .. what if ????? .. there will always be a part of you which will feel bad , because you were not good enough to be their mate. So its your choice , Either be involved in this dead end relationship or just move on (im in favor of the later)...

Please dont believe a single thing i said , GO to the internet research then , Make up your mind , Hearbreaks are the equivalent of not death , but a slow dying process that will destroy , you , Just look at the women who haev heartbreak they are forever changed , And look at the guyz , they become the most hardcore players the world has ever seen...