depends on person and ur social circle really...
me myself.. majority of my frens are guys... n both my best frens are guys also. haha. they are always there for me whenever i "fall". seriously all depends whether u choose ur frens properly or not.. for me.. i'm seriously lucky to have sincere frens. they have gfs and their gf know me also. hahaha!! they em song me once due to the closeness, but i guess they know who i really am adi... they are close to me also.. lol.
so... in conclusion,
not all guys are pathetic. some are really sincere. best frens are not bound by the same sexuality.