i used to be this huge footie n rock fella since i was eleven.......n so i was pretty close to a few guy frens...
my problem started when i had a crush on one of them...it was hurtin because he called me his 'buddy' and told me bout his gfs...
it took me so freakin long to get over it...n i even told him but he just brushed it off as a joke..
didnt see him for years now...
my opinion....guys n gals can NEVER be JUST good frens...
surely either one party or another would feel something 'more'...