May 14 2006, 07:08 AM
QUOTE(refnulf @ Mar 30 2006, 10:08 AM)
I've said this many times. No, No, NO. Guys and gals cannot be friends. Sex is always on the guy's mind. Understand. And every guy here that says that this isn't true. Please... stop lying.
It's a big problem if the gal is pretty, and it's a big problem even if the girl isn't pretty because eventually you'll want to nail em too.
Remember, the average that a guy thinks about sex is 623 times a day.
There's some truth in this, but it's not 100% clearcut. I have plenty of female friends. Do I find them attractive? Yes. Do I sometimes fantasize about them? Yes. Would I sleep with them? If they offered, sure. It's a big problem if the gal is pretty, and it's a big problem even if the girl isn't pretty because eventually you'll want to nail em too.
Remember, the average that a guy thinks about sex is 623 times a day.
But I don't actively hang out with them thinking "Wow, I really want to f*** her." Doesn't even occur to me at all! And it wouldn't even be considered unless "feelings" were brought up somehow. It's irrelevant.
See, I don't think there's anything wrong with having the occasional fantasy about a friend. After all, what goes on inside my head is inside my head, right? Besides, half half the fun of having female friends is the sexual tension.
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