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Can gals and guys be good fren?
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allornothing
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May 12 2006, 08:55 AM
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I have a girl as a good friend. We can talk anything. We fool around with each other. I admit that sometimes the thought of sex comes to mind, but I'll just brush it aside and tell myself we are good friends. She's pretty too, but all I want is to be good friends, nothing more. We're practically like brother and sister
This post has been edited by allornothing: May 12 2006, 08:59 AM
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allornothing
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May 14 2006, 10:22 AM
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QUOTE(coriandery @ May 14 2006, 07:08 AM) There's some truth in this, but it's not 100% clearcut. I have plenty of female friends. Do I find them attractive? Yes. Do I sometimes fantasize about them? Yes. Would I sleep with them? If they offered, sure. But I don't actively hang out with them thinking "Wow, I really want to f*** her." Doesn't even occur to me at all! And it wouldn't even be considered unless "feelings" were brought up somehow. It's irrelevant. See, I don't think there's anything wrong with having the occasional fantasy about a friend. After all, what goes on inside my head is inside my head, right? Besides, half half the fun of having female friends is the sexual tension.  That's what I meant. We're in the same situation
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allornothing
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May 22 2006, 07:21 PM
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Er. Can I like, that back my words? And to make a statement? A guy and a girl, in my experience cannot be good friends. Why? Earlier I said a have a good friend, a girl. We're together now
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