queue farer? further or farer? xD bah! i say girls and guy can be best friend.. i have it hard to find a girl that you can have a guy talk with her including sex life and such.. well i have a few which i know them for few years back hehe.. they are very open, very comfortable and can talk what ever shits or topics.. its kinda nice to have such a close girl friends.. rather than "girlfriend" sometimes and ofcourse it all depends what kind of girl friends you are mixing with.. some are just err you know "GIRLS" hehehe cheers..