well, true to what one of the posters wrote, some guys or girls can be friends yet some cant..its juz a matter of finding out which is which=)i've had my spate of girls who call me 'BEST FRIENDS' yet in the end the moved on afta finding boyfriends..but i'm not losing hope that guys and girls can indeed be best friends=)i've seen alot of cases where guys will be 'BEST FRIENDS' wit a girl juz because she is hot and as a way to get close to her..afta the girl rejects him,thats when the guy goes into withdrawal syndrome and being possesive..sighs..