Normally it's the guy who fall for the girl or the girl who fall for the guy first?

Anyways, here's my case:

I have a lot of female friends, in fact, I actually mix more with female friends than male friends. But then, lucky got no feelings (of like) for any of them. However, there were times when I mixed with only one of them ... and we got kinda close ... and then I fell for her. But then I never ever said anything, just kept it a secret to myself. As days pass by, and we got into our big group of friends again, my feelings for her begin to vanish since we didn't get as close as before.

So, my conclusion is:

You can have many gals (or guys) as good friends, but it's really hard to have JUST 1 gal (or guy) as a good friend.