There is always a limit to where things are heading. Think carefully before you act and turn things upside down.



by the way, yes. I do believe guys and girls can be good friends as a matter a fact, my best friends are mostly guys. So learn to draw the line where its meant to be.

Well, i had the same problem too. I got too close with this friend. Things started to go all berserk. I was so like unstable. Till i manage to pull myself back and think for myself. Just don't let this kinda things ruin you my dear . Its really complicated , i know. IT IS ! Just learn to let go and get used to it. Cuz one fine day, our best friends will always be around when ever we need them . They bring joy to our life. Seriosly.

Cheers.

My Dear, I know its difficult but learn to let go. Okay ? That guy likes the side attention he gets from you and sometimes they find refuge in girls like us. We are close friends, not part timer. So its like when he wanna call, he call la. Don't you feel degraded? As a girl you have to have your dignity and stand up for yourself. Don't let this kinda guys push you around. Not worth it la. And as you said, he calls you when he's free or at the office? What does that show? He is calling you and not his girlfriend. He is just killing some spare time and that excludes his own girlfriend. He wants you to love him but he is reluctant to be with you? Come on. Please tell me you are better than that. Understand that he is just treating you as a part timer.

Having a close friend from the opposite sex is always a joy as it is easier to communicate regarding any topic. Seriously.

Disgusting is a strong word. Hmmmmm....

Well, good luck to you then.

What's thaaaaaaaaat?

Agreed !

well, some people put feelings above common sense , so we just let them live in their own fantasy world as they like to live in la. They seem happy that way so why bother asking advice.