The short answer. No cable can provide scaling. So there is no such cable.
Ur astro SD source is 4:3. Ur display shd have a few modes to fill the screen. Just selecting 16:9 might be doing a horizontal stretch. What u need to do is to do a progressive stretch. However, it is still stretching and it is not going to yield a perfect picture. Select something that says, Wide or Justified modes on ur display. (This might not exist on ur set as I am not familiar with ur set). However, they will still look a little off especially in the sides of the display.
Ur other choices are, get an external scalar. siriuslycold has recommended a dvdo. The dvdo edge is a good scalar/deinterlacing processor and it will be better than ur display. However, it costs about double of ur display. It has a scalar algorithm that is one of the best coupled with ABT chip.
Another choice is use an AVR with a good scalar chip (Onkyo with Reon chips, Denon with ABT chips). Then use the AVR to scale the picture to ur display.
The most logical choice is 4:3 but u hv clearly said that u do not want that.
The other option is to use S-video cable (a good one) that will not fix the "broader" issue that u have but will reduce the noise and the colour fidelity a little.
However, SD is SD, on larger screens it will show its ugly head. Also scaling a 4:3 to a 16:9 display cannot be done without losing fidelity. Also Astro SD sources are highly compressed so its not worth spending money on a high end scalar since it will still look bad.
My recommendation for now is learn how to get used to it.
yes ai agree with you. Guess ill just have to put up with it. Doesnt affect me much though but was wondering if there was an easy method of improving the visual experience. Thanks anyway. Cheers!