can i laugh for a moment... *laughs* av is normal la. n everyone have their own erm different interest in it.

now...lets get to topic.

1) yes u will still be able to find a gf n have a healthy relationship.

2) u dont need to find a girl that's an otaku, u need to find someone u can communicate with, someone u're comfortable with and someone that's able to understand u... as u are with them.

3) aquarius have very similar traits.. n one of it is communication. use that on ur advantage... not push it aside.

4) understand that hobbies are things that u're intrested in and that everyone have different ones. learn to control n balance them with ur social life. its very important to understand n remember that.

just relax n take things as time passes by... just dont expect girls to be like the girls in the anime. it doesn't work that way.

dear, girls can be look like gurl from anime le .. the problem is .. will she look de same out of the outfit and also make up nia, later took off the eyelash .. took off the eye liner eye shadow ... off the huge iris effect contact lens ... tada u got another new gf ..

dear.. i meant personality wise. nothing to do with looks la. looks can always do anyway u want it.. worst come to worst, PLASTIC SURGERY. but personality n habits isn't that easy to change. n u can't expect someone to be exactly the way u want them to be.

can i laugh for a moment... *laughs* av is normal la. n everyone have their own erm different interest in it.

now...lets get to topic.

1) yes u will still be able to find a gf n have a healthy relationship.

2) u dont need to find a girl that's an otaku, u need to find someone u can communicate with, someone u're comfortable with and someone that's able to understand u... as u are with them.

3) aquarius have very similar traits.. n one of it is communication. use that on ur advantage... not push it aside.

4) understand that hobbies are things that u're intrested in and that everyone have different ones. learn to control n balance them with ur social life. its very important to understand n remember that.

just relax n take things as time passes by... just dont expect girls to be like the girls in the anime. it doesn't work that way.

dear, girls can be look like gurl from anime le .. the problem is .. will she look de same out of the outfit and also make up nia, later took off the eyelash .. took off the eye liner eye shadow ... off the huge iris effect contact lens ... tada u got another new gf ..

You can go to those anime cosplay expos, should be right up your alley.

errr.............first time post topic at lowyat cupid corner

story is like this............

would girl / lady accept otaku????

i 25, work in construction site as planning engineer...............
also loiter engineer.................some time loiter away during office hour................

height 179cm......weight depend on time......some time 80, sometime 90

didnt smoke, didnt gambling, and dindnt drunk........
(introduction until here still sound ok)

hobby.............

collecting gundam model kit...............collection amount..........equal to tiny shop...........

another weirdo hobby..........collecting weapon...........katana, balisong, knuckle duster, tactical knife, ..............major CQB weapon available in my room................

............collecting AV.........exspecially uniform girl.....................(if its too sensitive.......please ask me to delete this part........)
(i believe when a guy not interest in AV........he is either blind, sexless or gay)

only listen to japan anime song and music....................
(since popular song quality = so so..............)

like speeding..........exspecially when raining..................................

like to watch anime......................

slightly normal hobby......like to collect cooking recipi................

dislike football, sport................clubbing......(maybe once a blue moon upon request of superior).......
wanna ask majority opinion.............is there any hope for me to get a GF???

ps........i think i still consider OK if compare with my friend.......
(who married with PVC girl, and 2D character...................no joke)
gonna attend speed dating at the coming 6-june......
http://www.click-together.com/cgi-bin/click/index.cgi

my friend say, cheat the girl first (dont told about the hobby part), in order to success tackle her................
its against my prinsip........................

the only thing im really suspicious of is why you love to type long "....................." in EACH SINGLE SENTENCES ... it gets a bit weird...but its just me probably.

let me get this straight...if a girl suddenly likes u but shes not interested in otaku, u will "shoo" her away? coz from wat u were typing, u dun care that girl like u or not...most importantly is she likes otaku first.

girls will be girls, they wont be interested in gundams, or God of War games, thats for sure. but they will be interested in anime and manga...if u read loads of manga and have a high knowledge of anime, then gratz.. u can easily click with a lot of girls..

usually a girl can accept a guy who likes otaku but the girl herself may not be interested in otaku at all...few girls told me before "i dun mind my bf collects transformers n gundams, but i do hope he rather save the money for our future.."

life of a otaku isnt easy...currency in m'sia isnt high..and those anime figs are super expensive..and then when u get urself a girl, the girl will expect u quitting otaku or spend less on figs..in the end u urself have to choose, which is more important, a gf/ wife? or spending ur days with anime figures?

O_O!
Your weight change accordingly follow by time/schedule?

still got chance geh ~~~ but u need to take action and go out meet some girls lor
gambateh ..support in morale... 

now otaku life is half retire................old stock remain, while seldom buy new stock...........

action taken, 6 julai going ahead for speed dating.........
stil wonder what is the suitable dress code

the way you ask like this i already know you have very little social life.

What is an otaku? O.O

your fren that married with PVC girl.....izzit guest18?

I think it won't be a problem. There are female otaku too you know.

Anyways, I think what you're worried about is that she doesn't accept your hobby and passion. Most girls are actually aware of the existance of male Otaku. I myself use to own some (not to your extent).

But I do think that the amount you are dedicating to it will probably be a problem. With a relationship, you know you have to put aside some money. Girls probably won't like it if you use most of your pay to support your Gunpla hobby.

With a light switch to adjust your expenses, I think it won't be a problem. Also, you should be careful so she doesn't feel like your Gunpla is more important than she is.