Sarah,
It is sad to hear your story. Allowing your hubby to have a discrete affair may be fair to his sex life but not fair to your marriage. It would also not be fair to the person whom he had chosen to be his mate. Although she will not face problems from you, she will still be caught into other problems related to being the third party.

You situation reminded me of one famous Sarah. She encouraged her husband to lay with her maid. You can read about the mess the family had got into because of this decision (It is somewhere in the book of Genesis).

This post has been edited by faceless: Jul 9 2010, 03:06 PM