QUOTE(elvenchou1987 @ Aug 20 2010, 10:45 AM)
Just had a small conversation with my friend. He asked why am I coming late for our outing later tonight. I told him I had to go to gym and workout 1st and will feel guilty if I skip my workout session.
He gave me a "wtf" and said that I'm turning into gay. He even said that most buffed guys are GAYs. I replied by gaving him a LOL and told him I live the way I like....
The funniest part is, this guy is a fat, overweight and near obese guy who tells me I'm turning into gay by working out!
these reminds of a term toxic people
A toxic person is basically anyone who holds you back, cuts you down, makes you experience any number of negative emotions on a regular basis, and generally causes you to feel like a piece of toilet paper, and not that nice triple-quilted stuff either. A toxic person can be a friend, a co-worker, a family member, and even a girlfriend or spouse.
So why do they do it? Well, they may be doing it consciously or unconsciously. It can be done out of hatred or competition, but the usual culprits are jealously and fear. In your case he sees you losing fat and getting more muscular. Your body is looking better and better so he tries to sabotage you in order to rationalize his fat-self.
DELUSIONAL ? hell yes but frighteningly common.
Nothing pisses off a toxic person more than seeing someone else succeed! they behave this way to make them feel better, so they rationalize by bringing one down and making plausible excuses to justify his muffin-top. you see it's sort of self ego-defence mechanism.
No need to lash out or shoot back at him in your case. The fact that u are making a concious effort to make yourself better proves a lot.