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gracechew
post Apr 12 2010, 01:02 AM

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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM)
Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  rclxms.gif and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

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i'm 22 also, remember, you are just 22, not 27! don't be desperado like some of my friends who are even younger than me 1 year...

i'm sure the guy that you long for will come one day, when its not yet time for the guy to appear in your life, just enjoy what you have now, for when you really do meet the guy that's right for you, you will surely miss all your 'single' status days!!!

i have a friend like you too, she asked me whether is it weird when all of her friends are having bf that she should just simply have a bf too...i told her the same thing that i'm telling you now, NO...its also fun to be single and free! my friend totally agreed with me, she enjoyed her life very much without any guy now...

Don't simply be with a guy until you are sure that it is serious..you will surely regret it if you just take any guy that comes along...
gracechew
post Apr 12 2010, 01:45 AM

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QUOTE(ignitebell @ Apr 12 2010, 01:14 AM)
if is 32yrs old ?
n wait the right person to appear for 8yrs ?


Added on April 12, 2010, 1:15 amappear but been reject ?
then wat should i do
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i had seen a lot of my mum's friends, 39 only married, some 30 something not yet marry but enjoying her life like hell (successful lady)...i'm not asking ts to wait without any effort, go out, explore, have fun (not the naughty fun), just that when she really thinks that finally she find a guy that is really meant for her, go ahead, listen to her instinct and heart, it will lead her..if this relationship fails, it will be a lesson to learn in life...

appear but reject...just have to continue move on, depends how long you can be normal again...or until you find another one..there won't be "mr right" until you choose your "mr maybe"..(mr maybe = positive feelings to the guy, not cincai take a guy)...then you will know whether he's right for you...positive it may sound, but the world is cruel...just have to take, learn and heal...

i just want ts to know that there is nothing wrong with 22 and no bf... nod.gif ts say she is pretty, that's why it make matters worse, she won't know easily which guy is truly wanting her, her appearance or her personality being her own self....

maybe she will know what i'm talking about when her girlfriends of hers are going to her for comfort when they are having trouble with their bfs.. tongue.gif

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post Apr 12 2010, 02:17 AM

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QUOTE(ignitebell @ Apr 12 2010, 02:08 AM)
im totally agree wit u ..... i got my self healing power quite very fast ...mayb this kind case oledi happen to me until get numb
i think im learn alot this stuff as take , leaves it , learn n heals

that make me blur should i keep on goin to this gal or juz left it
cuz im oledi 32 cant waste to much time.

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32yrs + 1yrs (miss A) show her more sincere n time ..at the end stil is been rejected
33yrs + 1yrs healing time or mayb more to wait for the miss.right or miss.mayb
34yrs or mayb more

confuse !!!
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hahaha...based on your healing power, i think you haven't meet the girl that will ignite your fire, ignitebell? hahaha! biggrin.gif

you are a guy, you shouldn't be that worry, hehe, moreover, early 30s should be your "attractive" year...girls will come flocking to you..

the quote below is what i was thinking just now, but can't seem to put words to it, so i put "mr maybe", until i read this from the first few pages...thanks tech!

QUOTE(tech3910 @ Apr 6 2010, 05:21 PM)
pls.....u said those boys r immature?
ur self r immature......

ur so called mr. right is the handsome guy in ur imagination which actually comes from early age exposure to disney fairytale & taiwanese/korean/japanese drama......

i always advice girls like u....
"of coz u cant find mr. right/the one, bcoz u're not suppose to find it, u're suppose to mold it."

u see, the is no 1 is dis world where it is born to be perfect for each other.
2 person wit different personality will get 2gether like 2 pieces of dynamic puzzle pieces.
overtime, both form will change into a matching set of puzzle pieces.
dis is wen u realized theother person is mr./ms. right.

so ts, pls.....of coz ur still single....is ur immature thinking....
stop whining coz it is ur own fault.....
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gracechew
post Apr 12 2010, 11:03 AM

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QUOTE(ignitebell @ Apr 12 2010, 02:34 AM)
mayb u r right .........haven meet the gal that can ignite my fire.

is she the 1 (im askin myself)
then hv to keep on goin .......
but i scare 1 day she telling me she falling in love on other guy ...
that will b very hurt for me ......cuz i been to this case b4 ....
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haha, don't worry, i already been in this situation before, i decided to let go although i know its hard, i do not want a guy be with me but not his heart...who will not be scare that his or her partner will fall for another person, but i will trust my bf, we girls will know when their bfs have another girl hidden, its just a matter of time and how we will know...(Eg. Tiger Woods brows.gif , John Terry shocking.gif , Neo blink.gif ) if you really find that girl who make you on fire, she will be on fire for you too, just have to keep the fire alive.. wub.gif


QUOTE(spanker @ Apr 12 2010, 10:12 AM)
can introduce your friends to me?
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Hahahaha, NO...cuz i don't know who are those crocodile hunters here in forum! my friends are happy to be single now...
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post Apr 12 2010, 01:07 PM

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QUOTE(spanker @ Apr 12 2010, 12:27 PM)
I'm also happy to be single. Which is why I'm asking you to intro me to them, meet more girls no harm wat. If not everyday I get surrounded by batangs like h4e geli la.
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seriously, its not my right to intro guys to them, unless i have their opinion and permission...furthermore, i don't know you in person...you will get to know a lot other girls in forum here...hehehe..so you don't need me to intro...hehehe... blush.gif
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post Apr 12 2010, 11:51 PM

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QUOTE(ignitebell @ Apr 12 2010, 07:24 PM)
aiyah !!! she nvr try , she nvr noe..
juz give it try laa....firstly can chat at forum. no need to meet up sien . then c how the story go ........  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif  biggrin.gif


Added on April 12, 2010, 7:32 pm
that y im always saying woman is PEPSI ' ask for more '
aiyah !!!! but man aslo like the same laaa
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hahaha, you can try with the one who started this thread first, and see how the story goes, drool.gif ...my friend is at uk now, so can't try, hehehe

QUOTE(suffaxile @ Apr 12 2010, 07:37 PM)
Come, we all go yumcha xD. Ya, its never wrong to meet more ppl one grace. Expanding ur options and fren circle, who knows we might find a life partner among the group  biggrin.gif
This.. rock.  biggrin.gif
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i know its not wrong to meet more people...but in the internet, its far more dangerous...so i better not...cause i encounter "ham sap man" before in internet..so im more careful now...guys got nothing to lose, that's why so relax, right? hehehe... flex.gif

 

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