i used to hate holding my ex's hand. reason is i just didn't love him truthfully and i tot holding his hand just make me very very very uncomfortable. i don't know but to me, hand is something symbolic. if i give my hand for a person to hold, means that i feel secured and belonged to him already, which in my ex's case is not like that. i even hate being seen with him. dun ask me why i got with him it's a long story. but anyway, maybe it takes time? why don't instead of being sad, make more effort to show him lots and lots of love. don't be sad and saddened by this aye? becos im sure if u shower him with plenty of love, there'll be one day which he'll feel that and eventually wants to hold ur hands forever cheers!