That's why, I told my bf, no chinese traditional marriage like PLEASE !!
Ping Gam, Ang pau, Wedding Dinner, Open Door Ang pau for Ji mui and bla bla bla, waste so much $$$ doing the same old boring thing, such a big big waste !!
Especially the Chinese Wedding dinner, expensive, food so-so only, I cook myself for them more good...
And the most stupidest part, AH PEK & AUNTIE KARAOKE, waffak !! Damn annoying ....

It's fun when if the games are very silly and fun.
But my friends/bestie eyes are like this ($.$)
One of my friend get married and we're the jimui, ang pau rm250 each person and we have 4, I think it's already cukup.

Too bad, one my of friend complain ang pau too small, groom too kiam siap, I too easy satisfy blah blah blah.
I thought wedding are mean to be fun, happy and memorable ?
But why is chinese ppl see MONEY so big already

Therefore to avoid that, it's better that I dont want it.
Just a simple wedding, I dont want to spend over 30k just to tell ppl, I'M MARRIED where after few months, no one will remember it.

If all my relatives also have facebook account, I really will.

Seriously, rm500 per month ? Buying food, go pasar and pay all the bills enough ka ?
My bro already giving my mom rm500 per month now.

We don't need to pay for the cars and 2 houses but it's still not enough.
My mom go pasar buy pork meat already spent at least Rm50+, what about the fish ? the vegetables ? Rice ?
Go Carefour buy daily use stuff already Rm200+

House got dogs ? Like mine, I got 4, dog food ? Shampoo ?
When we sick go clinic see doctor ?

Rm500 ?? Seriously, damn little la, somemore want to cut it until Rm300-400.

My mom 20 years ago, ping kam also 5k d...

No need
My parents not so chinese traditional 1 because last time they were forced to do a lot of things that they don't like so they do not want us to be like that too.