easy la, secretly ask ur bf give RM6 k to ur parents & hiding this from your in law parents lor..but to be frank, RM6k is not big amount lor..my bro's in law parents requested RM50k leh about 5 yrs ago yet my family aint rich also..but what to do since girl's family requested already..sometimes this very susah de..will cause big arguements for the new married couples & somemore after married both side parents not contacting each others 1..js like my family & my bro's in law family...but the most important is new married couple happy ma..hope this help!!!