QUOTE(vandoren @ Apr 30 2011, 10:17 PM)
sorry to offense
you are selfish to me
when we were small, will our parents ever think that we are their burden?
when they are old now, they become burden to us?
i understand some folks nagging a lot and sometimes very stubborn, but still, they are our parents.
so do our couple's parents, we should respect them, same as we respect our couple.
no offence, just a little miss understanding......
wat i mention earlier is dat "it is selfish for parents to request money from children even if dey already hav well enough money". <------ dis is burden
but if parents do need your money to live on, dats different story, dat is part of the responsibility of kids to feed & giv money to parents (including in laws). <-------dis is responsibility, not burden
Added on May 2, 2011, 5:11 pmQUOTE(uest91 @ May 1 2011, 12:45 AM)
Seriously, rm500 per month ? Buying food, go pasar and pay all the bills enough ka ?
My bro already giving my mom rm500 per month now.
We don't need to pay for the cars and 2 houses but it's still not enough.
My mom go pasar buy pork meat already spent at least Rm50+, what about the fish ? the vegetables ? Rice ?
Go Carefour buy daily use stuff already Rm200+
House got dogs ? Like mine, I got 4, dog food ? Shampoo ?
When we sick go clinic see doctor ?
Rm500 ?? Seriously, damn little la, somemore want to cut it until Rm300-400.
500 is just a quick example that slip out, there r many factors take into count, such as:
1) do parents has som sorts of income after retired? (such as rent, bond)
2) how many sibling u hav. (of coz, more siblings mean average will b less per person)
3) whether u live wit parents o not. (or ur if dey take care of ur kids)
so conclusion not every family is like urs.
Added on May 2, 2011, 5:14 pmQUOTE(Yong_5290 @ May 2 2011, 07:08 AM)
Me 7 years back also give 8888 lo...and tot it was 'standard'....dint know got lower 1...zzz
dis whole "standard" thing is still stupid.....
in the end, it's all about 'air muka' again......"see every1, my daughter is expensive, coz she's pretty, good, & got class"
bragging tools to frens & relatives again....
Added on May 2, 2011, 5:15 pmQUOTE(uest91 @ May 2 2011, 05:02 PM)
No need
My parents not so chinese traditional 1 because last time they were forced to do a lot of things that they don't like so they do not want us to be like that too.
good for u....
i like the way ur parents think.
This post has been edited by tech3910: May 2 2011, 05:15 PM 
Apr 5 2010, 12:13 PM
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but now i am undergoing it myself 
but, fortunately, i dun have to go thru wat TS has to go thru, my mum was reasonable enough and she asked for RM 3,888 (when my bf asked indirectly); further discussion will be next month....my mum agreed that she doesn't want to put us into debt....
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