Personal loan for wedding? good luck then.

i dun think is matter of respect or not. wut is the point request for 20k n return 15k again later? is juz about status i guess n when chat wit those uncle aunty will gain u more status as u worth 20k. lol.

like wise, most of the girl r highly educated nowadays n not relying the husband and we might even give our own parents some money each month.

at the end juz depend on urself n ur hubby. dun let both of ur parents become an obstacle. if they do force upon it, dun get married first until pregnant. then all thing can be very well negotiate. lol.