Your future husband should be the one willingly to step up and pay the amount requested. Since you two are already getting married, he must have enough savings and well prepared for such situation. Since your parents requested rm 6,000 and his parents wanted sign of hou yi tou, such as 888 at the end. 5,888 would be great, since it has 888 and nearest to 6,000. Your future husband should talk to their parents, tell them its once in a lifetime.
A big no-no to personal loan just to get married, I'd not get married before i've enough savings(comfortably to get married and some extra).
This post has been edited by frankiejay: Feb 20 2010, 03:09 PM
Argument on Ping Kam, Chinese Wedding Custom/Tradition

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