Argument on Ping Kam, Chinese Wedding Custom/Tradition
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 Feb 19 2010, 04:12 PM
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When it comes to money, there is sure to be arguments especially when the person is not ready.
I don't know what is love anymore if it is not getting prepared to marry each other at the end of the day. Wait? For how long? |
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Feb 19 2010, 05:12 PM
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QUOTE(vandoren @ Feb 19 2010, 05:07 PM) i'm totally agree with you. Yes. It is unfair. my bf's monthly salary 70% goes to supporting his family as well as save as his parent's health emergency fund as his parents have 0 insurance. since both of us are late 20s, i've asked him several time any planning to our future. he keep on saying no money and have to support his family. ask me to wait.. wait till when? wait till i'm 30++ ? till old? i feel that it's kinda unfair to me..  Sometimes I wonder if he really loves the gf? He seems to consider his family more important. Other people in his family can be happily married and he lets his gf suffer. A girl is only young once and she cannot spend her time waiting for someone who treats her unfairly. This post has been edited by barista: Feb 19 2010, 05:14 PM |
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Feb 19 2010, 05:38 PM
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QUOTE(vandoren @ Feb 19 2010, 05:32 PM) sometimes i think that some gal like me is kinda stupid, give up a higher pay OL job in KL; go back ipoh, working in a factory. this is the return that i get from him.. it's really disappointed. Money aside, how much care the person gives?I didn't have valentine's celebration or gift. He wished me only after I wished him. Other days he does not ask about me or talk to me during the day. Most of the time I am alone. He forgets about the things I've said and he does not remember most of the things he said he will do. No you are not stupid. You are like me. We love the person whole-heartedly and choose to support him. But not everybody is appreciative and it hurts. This post has been edited by barista: Feb 19 2010, 05:44 PM |
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