QUOTE(djcarmen @ Mar 26 2010, 04:44 PM)
lol. that's the difference between men n women. guys just feel the sensation at the moment n have that need all the time. ladies, when they're doing it..their mind is wondering "is this right?", "does he like it?", "what will he be like after sex?", "will he still love me?" or "is this the only thing he wants from me?" kinda crap....
sex is not the best medicine but a fast route away from stress. it helps control one's emotions n etc. but doing it with the wrong person.. u can get worse instead of better. been there tried it.. kinda crappy after a while.
agree
i think most of the time, men wants women to show love through sex, so that it becomes something that can be felt, something physical.
so there's a saying women make love to be intimate with their men, and men be intimate to make love with their women.
but sometimes, women feel unappreciated or unloved right after the sex, because, well, most guys just no longer be that intimate after sex unlike before sex when they have foreplay etc, cus some guys just doze off to sleep after climaxing. guys should take 10 mins time to hold the girl and hug her (after play). some small talk etc or just cuddle. give her assurance and feeling of security. this is the part alot of couples have missed out. it's the time they can bond with other, understand their emotional needs not just physical needs.