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 Feb 26 2010, 11:08 PM
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Feb 26 2010, 11:11 PM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 26 2010, 11:08 PM) Marriage cost at least RM 2x,xxx.......from what i asked to some families, but of course, marriage cost is so subjective. That's a good thing to do... I think marriage has got nothing to do with parents... Its an event for the souls getting married... Best to save money and use it for wedding... lol! I would like to save money for that and not to rely on parents.   Added on February 26, 2010, 11:11 pm QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:10 PM)   This post has been edited by bluephoenix87: Feb 26 2010, 11:11 PM |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 26 2010, 11:14 PM) If the whole marriage involves only me and her, that's wrong. lol... I think they should only be involved with the makan session... nothing else...Families will always be part of it, like it or not.... In-laws, this and that......can't just ignore them. Anyway, it is still too early to talk about this, haha I think if they get too involved also not healthy oso... After theey bring in nonsense like some tradition crap and etc... I prefer that my significant other and I both are involved in "PLANNING" our wedding... lol! QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:16 PM) marriage topic?.. my mum nag to me every chance she get Time for us to nag you...  dunno la.....i should be thinking about it but...  |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:23 PM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:20 PM) considered should have a baby already laa... Still can what... Science and adoption are among the two options you have... |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:24 PM) please dun la...... Cannot...  or i just can change my mode to .."DENIAL MODE" |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:27 PM
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QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:24 PM) I don't mind chinese tradition, it's fun. it's just 1 day. Indian tradition full of nonsense... Astrology, followed by numerology, then followed by exchange of dowries, and then followed by so many prayers , after that, some nonsense of staying at parents place, then oni move out and stay on your own...I want mine to be different... That's why I want someone who's modern minded, but at the same time has values and a level of principles... lol! but nothing to do with race, religion or culture... That's why I won't be looking at race and culture, but rather the personality of that person if I do decide to search for my significant other... This post has been edited by bluephoenix87: Feb 26 2010, 11:29 PM |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:28 PM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:25 PM) adoption... my mum always said.. Your mom actually tells you that... lol!u have baby normally ..just make baby normally laa ADOPTION?.. out of Q already Adoption is never too late, but I heard its really difficult to do it la... lol! |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:30 PM) ya lah,, since she nag me soo much, lol! Jangan la... Your mom really wants a grandchild huh? But the question is, are you keen of having a child? but yeah, adoption is my last resort.. QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:31 PM) hah i can't think of any "new" way so just follow tradition. then my religion very simple only. get married in Church, priest announce, tada, end. not even 2 hours. Tradition one is the one that need to go out of house 3 times (now modern, just use car reverse gear 3 times) then serve male's parents tea... then 8 course dinner! can't think of anything else. Haha... So much better than what Indians do traditionally, I just want go register at whatever office, after that a small makan, then go straight honey moon ... |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:37 PM) oh ya female asking for angpow part seems like scary part. maybe u seen it in TV. but i never see it in my relative's wedding. I thought the concept is that its not people ask for angpow, but rather more than its people "NATURALLY" giving them??? |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:43 PM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:40 PM) baby?... dunno sometimes mcm nak but sometimes mcm x nak.... lol! my mom told me that don't make her into a grandma at this age... lol! She said she doesn't want to become one... hahha.... in my age , maybe i'm looking someone that i can grow old together someone that i can depend on yelah, mothers all they want their children get married and started new family so just leave them alone.  I get very confused with mother... I don't know what she wants... I don't know if she's happy I'm single, or she's scared that I'm single... My family so puzzling...  Can decide on ah? When want, when don't want??? Its a natural process... How many bad relationships have you had before this? If you don't mind me asking... lol!Added on February 26, 2010, 11:44 pm QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:43 PM) in CNY yeah. I'm not sure about the angpow part i just talked. just watch in tv only. like what give to "pass" the place, dunno, someone can explain better than me. Have you asked your parents about this?? but there's one part where ppl will ask for "angpow". It's during dinner. It's to cover the cost. Which average earned salary person can afford 8 course for 100 people? they usually ask "angpow" at the entrance to cover the cost. that's why my parents always go to people's wedding without us siblings, unless it's someone from immediate family (parents' sibling, or my cousin)  This post has been edited by bluephoenix87: Feb 26 2010, 11:44 PM |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:54 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteWing @ Feb 26 2010, 11:45 PM) Get a gf .... go chase idonnou's idonnou is a male... QUOTE(idonnou @ Feb 26 2010, 11:45 PM) hey.,..apa me again ignore him... he's useless...QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:47 PM) no, i observed it myself. when they enter, they have see how many person, then 1 person at least RM50 sometimes. So my parents always omit us siblings if possible to save money. really? but I think that's normal, but I don't think they go and ask for angpow rite???QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:47 PM) dunno la, just say i completely lose faith in L**E me too... girls haven't been very kind to me... QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:49 PM) what's L**E? Love la... QUOTE(WhiteWing @ Feb 26 2010, 11:50 PM) Give me a reason .. you in single club I see... If got homosexual in single's club, come in and chase you, you gonna accept? assuming that you are straight of course??? , everyone deserve a chance to chase you ..  |
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Feb 26 2010, 11:58 PM
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QUOTE(idonnou @ Feb 26 2010, 11:55 PM) no way...i just wan more friend..hahaha  QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:56 PM) I donnou. I think it's "understood", unless u really muka tembok terus walk in after registering your name. lol! I think that's what you call tradition right? |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:06 AM
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QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 26 2010, 11:59 PM) lol truthfully idonnou much. never asked. all from my observation. when my time comes i will ask. lol! Wait until last minute eh???? QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 26 2010, 11:59 PM) lucklily in my tradition doesn't include too much angpow's to given away doesn't matter, 1Malaysia we embrace semua... lol! QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 27 2010, 12:03 AM) I think cost can be recovered via hong bao. hong bao = angpow??? lol!Definitely. |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:13 AM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 27 2010, 12:09 AM) Recent wedding, i saw the car used for marriage was a Honda City... Ford Focus? lol! Nice choice... I've liked Ford's recent model... But somehow, my first choice is Lamborghini... Erm, i should target Ford Focus for wedding, haha Yes....angpow = hokkien Hong bao = Mandarin QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 27 2010, 12:09 AM) 1Malaysia ok la... Malaysian Malaysia??? lol! haishQUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 27 2010, 12:10 AM) problem is with chinese food.. normally ppl go for 4-5 star food...haiz. Its never too early to do life planning...ya, wait till last minute. cuz i feel like it's like a student sitting for PMR asking how to apply master degree. yeah, sure if can find halal 8 course hong bao = mandarin angpow = hokkien. |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:15 AM
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QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 27 2010, 12:14 AM) GF pun masih tarak ada T_T |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:16 AM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 27 2010, 12:15 AM) It's European, that's why it is my choice. lol! I thought, Ford is American??? Or you mean the design??? |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:21 AM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 27 2010, 12:17 AM) it's never too late to start I don't think got chance... Now I'm 23, next two years, need to finish my studies... I'll be 25 then, if all goes well... After that, need 3 years practical, on top of that, my parents expecting me to migrate... By the time I settle down at the place I migrate to, I'd probably be 30 - 32... After that I think to, first time fall in love, is too late... lol! |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:22 AM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Feb 27 2010, 12:18 AM) Ford is US. Wow... You know your cars!!! lol!The car in question, mostly developed in Europe. Exterior designer, is a British. Engineering, mostly German. QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 27 2010, 12:19 AM) I miss Ford Laser. mid 80's I never look back at old cars... lol!  |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:26 AM
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QUOTE(laksaUTARA @ Feb 27 2010, 12:23 AM) migrating? where? My family more keen on Australia, but I don't feel comfortable with Australia, heard that Australians are branded as very very materialistics... I prefer a simple with Fibre Optics internet life is enough for me... lol! Maybe later I'll decide to open my own business perhaps??? lol! But my parents want me to succeed ASAP so that my sister will be motivated to succeed as well... I am like i'll grad on 23, but start work on 25... now still searching for the one... This post has been edited by bluephoenix87: Feb 27 2010, 12:28 AM |
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Feb 27 2010, 12:29 AM
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QUOTE(toda_erika_II @ Feb 27 2010, 12:26 AM) ??? why would you still searching when you have already? She meant, she searching for the perfect man... lol! |
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